Really Worried

[Teenage]

(( So i looked into posting in the teen section, but I don't think this post would follow the guidelines...so if it is in the wrong section, please just let me know! ))

I'm Anna, 18, and pretty much A good Week late, I tested the day of my missed period, and it was a negative.

The past two days I've been feeling queezy, the feeling goes away after I eat some salt and vinager chips, but it only goes away for like five minutes after a bite of it.

I've been hacing cramps all over my abdomen, and I simply just feel full, and bloated..

My breasts were very sore, but now they seem to feel better, I'm still getting a few pimples on my face though...

I'm all for safe sex. My brother thought it would be funny to sneak into my room and stick a pin threw my condoms.

I think It was supposed to come the 25th, or 27th.

This morning, with the first urine, I noticed it smelt REALLY funny. Like, garlic-ie almost. It was definetly pungent. (sp, and TMI, sorry!)

I've also had lots of CM.


So to recap

-Cramps, but still zitty
-achey boobs that are going down
-Nausea all times of day for the past 2 days
-Really stinky Pee (What's Hcg smell like? I knw some women can smell it)
-Lots of CM that comes randomly.
-AF was due 25-27th


I know I should take a test.

I just want to know what you ladies think.

And Dollar tree?


Are they good?

When do you start showing?

 

[Louppey]

First off, your Brother sounds like a prize a*sehole. Sorry!

You need to take another test honey, I know you probably don't want to (worried about what it's going to say etc) but you really need to take a test and make sure it's when you first go to loo in the morning. Atleast once you know, you can speak to your family etc and get some support, or your Doctor.

I don't know about your symptoms or when you start to show etc as I haven't been pregnant before, i'm just trying at the moment

Good luck, and I hope you get the result you want...

 

[Teenage]

First off, your Brother sounds like a prize a*sehole. Sorry!

You need to take another test honey, I know you probably don't want to (worried about what it's going to say etc) but you really need to take a test and make sure it's when you first go to loo in the morning. Atleast once you know, you can speak to your family etc and get some support, or your Doctor.

I don't know about your symptoms or when you start to show etc as I haven't been pregnant before, i'm just trying at the moment

Good luck, and I hope you get the result you want...

He's a youngin, I don't think he knew better.

I really don't want to take another test. Lol I kinda have it in my head that it isn't there as long as I can't see it there.

The worst part is me and the BF literally just broke up, or will, in 2-3 days when he goes back to the states, and I stay in Canada, because I'm Canadian, and he's American.

So very soon, I'll be very single, and there's no working this out or anything. It's done for.

Oh gosh, I'm dreading the next week

Anyhow, thank you, and good luck!

 

[Louppey]

First off, your Brother sounds like a prize a*sehole. Sorry!

You need to take another test honey, I know you probably don't want to (worried about what it's going to say etc) but you really need to take a test and make sure it's when you first go to loo in the morning. Atleast once you know, you can speak to your family etc and get some support, or your Doctor.

I don't know about your symptoms or when you start to show etc as I haven't been pregnant before, i'm just trying at the moment

Good luck, and I hope you get the result you want...

He's a youngin, I don't think he knew better.

I really don't want to take another test. Lol I kinda have it in my head that it isn't there as long as I can't see it there.

The worst part is me and the BF literally just broke up, or will, in 2-3 days when he goes back to the states, and I stay in Canada, because I'm Canadian, and he's American.

So very soon, I'll be very single, and there's no working this out or anything. It's done for.

Oh gosh, I'm dreading the next week

Anyhow, thank you, and good luck!

I know it feels better to stick your head in the sand, but trust me you won't be able to go that if you are pregnant... you need to know.

Can you speak to your Mum? She will no doubt offer you support that you really need right now.

Take the test!!! You never know, you may not be pregnant and you've just delayed your period because you're stressing yourself out so much.

Trust me, it'll be better to know, either way

 

[Crazy4Emily]

You have to find out before he goes, he deserves to know.

Take a test. Do you have any good girlfriends that you could tell that could come be with you while you test?? That would be my recommendation, don't do it alone if you are afraid of the outcome.

Most people don't start showing until 4 months or so along.

 

[Louppey]

Crazy4Emily is right - he does deserve to know before he goes. Can't he be there while you test?

If not, girlfriend or Mum.

Honestly, you need support right now. It's not the time to be all by yourself

 

[Teenage]

First off, your Brother sounds like a prize a*sehole. Sorry!

You need to take another test honey, I know you probably don't want to (worried about what it's going to say etc) but you really need to take a test and make sure it's when you first go to loo in the morning. Atleast once you know, you can speak to your family etc and get some support, or your Doctor.

I don't know about your symptoms or when you start to show etc as I haven't been pregnant before, i'm just trying at the moment

Good luck, and I hope you get the result you want...

He's a youngin, I don't think he knew better.

I really don't want to take another test. Lol I kinda have it in my head that it isn't there as long as I can't see it there.

The worst part is me and the BF literally just broke up, or will, in 2-3 days when he goes back to the states, and I stay in Canada, because I'm Canadian, and he's American.

So very soon, I'll be very single, and there's no working this out or anything. It's done for.

Oh gosh, I'm dreading the next week

Anyhow, thank you, and good luck!

I know it feels better to stick your head in the sand, but trust me you won't be able to go that if you are pregnant... you need to know.

Can you speak to your Mum? She will no doubt offer you support that you really need right now.

Take the test!!! You never know, you may not be pregnant and you've just delayed your period because you're stressing yourself out so much.

Trust me, it'll be better to know, either way

I think I will, if not today, than tomorrow.

Mom has always wanted to be a young grandma...twisted, yes, I know...She's one of those Milfy type ladies. So yes, Support from her will be there, I know it.

Thank you love, and all the best of luck to you!

 

[Louppey]

First off, your Brother sounds like a prize a*sehole. Sorry!

You need to take another test honey, I know you probably don't want to (worried about what it's going to say etc) but you really need to take a test and make sure it's when you first go to loo in the morning. Atleast once you know, you can speak to your family etc and get some support, or your Doctor.

I don't know about your symptoms or when you start to show etc as I haven't been pregnant before, i'm just trying at the moment

Good luck, and I hope you get the result you want...

He's a youngin, I don't think he knew better.

I really don't want to take another test. Lol I kinda have it in my head that it isn't there as long as I can't see it there.

The worst part is me and the BF literally just broke up, or will, in 2-3 days when he goes back to the states, and I stay in Canada, because I'm Canadian, and he's American.

So very soon, I'll be very single, and there's no working this out or anything. It's done for.

Oh gosh, I'm dreading the next week

Anyhow, thank you, and good luck!

I know it feels better to stick your head in the sand, but trust me you won't be able to go that if you are pregnant... you need to know.

Can you speak to your Mum? She will no doubt offer you support that you really need right now.

Take the test!!! You never know, you may not be pregnant and you've just delayed your period because you're stressing yourself out so much.

Trust me, it'll be better to know, either way

I think I will, if not today, than tomorrow.

Mom has always wanted to be a young grandma...twisted, yes, I know...She's one of those Milfy type ladies. So yes, Support from her will be there, I know it.

Thank you love, and all the best of luck to you!

That's great that you have a supportive Mum - even if it is just so she can have grandkids though

You need your Mum now, go speak to her and take the

I really hope it all works out for the best for you, take care x

 

[stitch]

Definitely test!
Good luck to you!

 

[Teenage]

He is much older. 25, living with two room mates, in a pig pen, as it were, who promised me the world, but never delivered, has a very, scary intimate side which involves hitting...But of course none of this really came into play until he started getting 'comfortable' with me way too soon.

The man has started to act bizzar recently, harassing me to sleep with him, not being happy until we sleep, being very immature at times in our relationship, picking arguments...blaming me for him getting fat because I don't want to run outside with him, silly little things.

Lately he's stopped cleaning after himself, stopped taking out empty containers out of the fridge, stopped doing laundrey, there are two piles of his clothes on my floor, dirty, and still wearable...both piles being dirty and all.

The worst part is I told him, and he promised he'd become Canadian for me, but now he's signed up to go to the Marines. Without consulting me. Last night he said he'd be home at 7...came in at 12 44. Not even once did he call him...

I'm really, very fed up with him.


And saddened/surprised this sudden...change in the man.

It's like he's stopped trying in his efforts, now that he relizes I'm unhappy he's trying to take me out to dinner and all that stuff, but I've been up since 7, reigstering for classes, he got up, and has been playing the xbox all day. It's 12 now.

When we did talk about children, he wants to name them after his family members, etc, and wouldn't ever let me have a say in our future plans, which were simple normal family life. Now it's Marines, then 100 acres in Pensylvania, with ducks, and cows.


:/ The state of his house....The ceiling fan, is supposed to be white.

So much dust on it, the tips of the wings are black.

I'm just fed up, my romance was a lie.

 

[stitch]

He is much older. 25, living with two room mates, in a pig pen, as it were, who promised me the world, but never delivered, has a very, scary intimate side which involves hitting...But of course none of this really came into play until he started getting 'comfortable' with me way too soon.

The man has started to act bizzar recently, harassing me to sleep with him, not being happy until we sleep, being very immature at times in our relationship, picking arguments...blaming me for him getting fat because I don't want to run outside with him, silly little things.

Lately he's stopped cleaning after himself, stopped taking out empty containers out of the fridge, stopped doing laundrey, there are two piles of his clothes on my floor, dirty, and still wearable...both piles being dirty and all.

The worst part is I told him, and he promised he'd become Canadian for me, but now he's signed up to go to the Marines. Without consulting me. Last night he said he'd be home at 7...came in at 12 44. Not even once did he call him...

I'm really, very fed up with him.


And saddened/surprised this sudden...change in the man.

It's like he's stopped trying in his efforts, now that he relizes I'm unhappy he's trying to take me out to dinner and all that stuff, but I've been up since 7, reigstering for classes, he got up, and has been playing the xbox all day. It's 12 now.

When we did talk about children, he wants to name them after his family members, etc, and wouldn't ever let me have a say in our future plans, which were simple normal family life. Now it's Marines, then 100 acres in Pensylvania, with ducks, and cows.


:/ The state of his house....The ceiling fan, is supposed to be white.

So much dust on it, the tips of the wings are black.

I'm just fed up, my romance was a lie.

Wow...Many may not agree with me at all about this, but I wouldn't even tell him you're pg (or might be)
I'd want him OUT of my life.

 

[Teenage]

He is much older. 25, living with two room mates, in a pig pen, as it were, who promised me the world, but never delivered, has a very, scary intimate side which involves hitting...But of course none of this really came into play until he started getting 'comfortable' with me way too soon.

The man has started to act bizzar recently, harassing me to sleep with him, not being happy until we sleep, being very immature at times in our relationship, picking arguments...blaming me for him getting fat because I don't want to run outside with him, silly little things.

Lately he's stopped cleaning after himself, stopped taking out empty containers out of the fridge, stopped doing laundrey, there are two piles of his clothes on my floor, dirty, and still wearable...both piles being dirty and all.

The worst part is I told him, and he promised he'd become Canadian for me, but now he's signed up to go to the Marines. Without consulting me. Last night he said he'd be home at 7...came in at 12 44. Not even once did he call him...

I'm really, very fed up with him.


And saddened/surprised this sudden...change in the man.

It's like he's stopped trying in his efforts, now that he relizes I'm unhappy he's trying to take me out to dinner and all that stuff, but I've been up since 7, reigstering for classes, he got up, and has been playing the xbox all day. It's 12 now.

When we did talk about children, he wants to name them after his family members, etc, and wouldn't ever let me have a say in our future plans, which were simple normal family life. Now it's Marines, then 100 acres in Pensylvania, with ducks, and cows.


:/ The state of his house....The ceiling fan, is supposed to be white.

So much dust on it, the tips of the wings are black.

I'm just fed up, my romance was a lie.

Wow...Many may not agree with me at all about this, but I wouldn't even tell him you're pg (or might be)
I'd want him OUT of my life.

Thanks, I think I feel the same way...much to all the posts on Yahoo Answers reading that it's his right to know and stuff...

I grew up with an Alcoholic father, I'm getting out of this relationship because I see warning signs.

I could have done without the verbal abuse, and unkept promises in my life.

My father also threatened to take me away from my mother, a recent immigrant from Poland.

 

[notquitesure]

I wouldn't tell him either much as some might disagree. I brought my daughter up alone as I felt she was better off without her father (although he did know that I was pregnant). I was 17 and she is now 19 it was hard work but we got through it and I wouldn't change anything for the world. However, if you feel this is not for you, I would not judge you either as I think it is a very personal choice (again, others may disagree). Just wanted to wish you luck if you are pregnant and in whatever you choose to do about it xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Teenage]

Thank you for the help/support.

I'll keep you ladies updated when I do test!

 

[Crazy4Emily]

Just wanted to check in with you. See how you're doing.

Even if you are pg, I think I'd kick this loser to the curb. You DON'T need a guy like this in your life. Really, you deserve a lot better.

Good luck sweetie!

 

[NatalieP]

Get rid of this guy! He sounds like a loser and a bum! Let us know what the tests said
xx

 

[schnoodle]

how are you doing hun? did you test?
x

 

[snl41296]

He is much older. 25, living with two room mates, in a pig pen, as it were, who promised me the world, but never delivered, has a very, scary intimate side which involves hitting...But of course none of this really came into play until he started getting 'comfortable' with me way too soon.

The man has started to act bizzar recently, harassing me to sleep with him, not being happy until we sleep, being very immature at times in our relationship, picking arguments...blaming me for him getting fat because I don't want to run outside with him, silly little things.

Lately he's stopped cleaning after himself, stopped taking out empty containers out of the fridge, stopped doing laundrey, there are two piles of his clothes on my floor, dirty, and still wearable...both piles being dirty and all.

The worst part is I told him, and he promised he'd become Canadian for me, but now he's signed up to go to the Marines. Without consulting me. Last night he said he'd be home at 7...came in at 12 44. Not even once did he call him...

I'm really, very fed up with him.


And saddened/surprised this sudden...change in the man.

It's like he's stopped trying in his efforts, now that he relizes I'm unhappy he's trying to take me out to dinner and all that stuff, but I've been up since 7, reigstering for classes, he got up, and has been playing the xbox all day. It's 12 now.

When we did talk about children, he wants to name them after his family members, etc, and wouldn't ever let me have a say in our future plans, which were simple normal family life. Now it's Marines, then 100 acres in Pensylvania, with ducks, and cows.


:/ The state of his house....The ceiling fan, is supposed to be white.

So much dust on it, the tips of the wings are black.

I'm just fed up, my romance was a lie.

Wow...Many may not agree with me at all about this, but I wouldn't even tell him you're pg (or might be)
I'd want him OUT of my life.

150% agree! with this. I would not tell him and get him out of your life asap.

 

[tbuns]

hope she's okay...

 

[Crazy4Emily]

Just was looking for an update from the OP. I hope she is ok...