Reasonable?

[ClairAye]

He doesn't work anymore :/

 

[Mummy1995]

Oh for goodness sake. What a joke! You can get some of his benefits though surely? X

 

[ClairAye]

Apparently he goes to college to gets a bursary and no benefits! No one can get hold of him either, he's such a loser!!

 

[baileybubs]

Oh I'm sorry hun, I dont know how men can behave like this towards their children, I was gonna reply saying you are being totally reasonable as I have just told my ex the exact same thing, he has them Tuesdays 10-8 and that's all I expect, if he wants to see them more he just has to ask (not likely) and if he is late then I take them out and he misses his day with them.
But from the sounds of it your ex is just being a complete tool. Sorry hun