cookette
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I had a very large uterine fibroid removed last year and have comlpications since with lingering pain, trouble urinating, etc. My tubes and uterus had dye ran through at surgery and they said they were excellent.
Retruned for a follow up re: still in pain. They think its scar tissue and uterine adhesion to the bowel/bladder and want to do surgery again. THEN, he proceeds to tell me if I was going to have a baby, to do so quickly, as he believes I have "an advanced biological clock" and that due to symptoms past/present my child bearing years will likely end sooner than most other women. He also said getting pregnant would likely stretch everything internally and resolve the pain issue without adding another surgery.
Dont get me wrong, he was not trying to pressure me and said so repeatedly, but he was advising me that if my husband and I had been discussing kids, it was a bit more of a pressing issue than to think I had 10 years to waffle on about it.
So I always hear "You're NEVER ready for a baby, you just have one."
How did YOU know the time was right?
Retruned for a follow up re: still in pain. They think its scar tissue and uterine adhesion to the bowel/bladder and want to do surgery again. THEN, he proceeds to tell me if I was going to have a baby, to do so quickly, as he believes I have "an advanced biological clock" and that due to symptoms past/present my child bearing years will likely end sooner than most other women. He also said getting pregnant would likely stretch everything internally and resolve the pain issue without adding another surgery.
Dont get me wrong, he was not trying to pressure me and said so repeatedly, but he was advising me that if my husband and I had been discussing kids, it was a bit more of a pressing issue than to think I had 10 years to waffle on about it.
So I always hear "You're NEVER ready for a baby, you just have one."
How did YOU know the time was right?