How is everyone doing? I hope the Lo's are mostly pain free and mummies are getting some rest.
My dd was prescribed Ranitidine. The effect seemed to wear off after about 2 wks but her dosage has been increased and today is the first time she napped for more than 20 mins!
I'm worried that the effect of reflux, the sleep habits (only in my arms, wakes the moment you put her down) and the fear she has of being flat down without a wedge pillow will last even once the reflux is under control. Those who survived reflux - how did you deal with this or does it resolve itself?
And does it really ever disappear? I see so many newborns in our area and can't believe how quiet they are, happily sleeping flat in their prams. What a different experience ours has been!
Hugs!!
So LO is now 8.5 months and we have stopped medicating recently.
Firstly, we still have books under the mattress because when I took them out, she was back to old habits, so that obviously makes a bit of difference. She has started to get the nasty hiccups again, but they don't seem to bother her too much so I'm just seeing how that goes. The odd vomit still occurs but nothing like it used to be.
Her sleeping improved at around 6 months when we got the reflux AND food intolerance under control. We went from sleeping 45 min stretches to 1.5-2hr stretches! In her cot! With much less fuss to go to sleep!
Also, i still feel a bit...weird...when I see others with nice, settled newborns sleeping quietly in their prams while their mum happily chats over coffee with friends
It feels a bit like jealousy to me. This was not my experience either and still, 8.5 month into it, I am trying to process the whirlwind of feeding problems, reflux, food tolerance, neck problems that was my own unsettled newborn.
My friend recently had her first baby, and she had such a different experience. When you see that NO, your baby was NOT like most others, and YES, your experience WAS a lot harder and more stressful, you realise that all those times you wanted to throw your baby out with the bath water is OK! It contributed a LOT to my PND- and I am now recovered from that, and dealing with the aftermath of it (ie The Guilt). If you're feeling like that all the time do go and talk to someone; i did not medicate, I just did some CBT and it has really helped me through the process. An unsettled baby is nothing you can understand until you go through it. My friend with the newborn now has a better understanding of how hard it was for me in the beginning: she often says "Wow, you really had a crap time didn't you! I can't believe how hard that must have been!" It's nice to feel validated like that.
Hopefully the bubs are doing as well as mine!! Chin up mums!
As an aside, my Chiro's daughter who is now 3, has been seeing a gastroenterologist because reflux has def caused a lot of long term issues for her: so we may be dealing with it for longer than we hope BUT she's still a happy kiddo