Shananigans
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I'm posting on here b/c I've just felt so emotional lately that i'm afraid i'm going to make a rash decision.
I was on birth control and ended up pregnant by someone I had only been dating 6 weeks when I found out. I went back and fourth on the abortion or keep. Finally told him I didn't want an abortion and was going to leave it in gods hands. He agreed, asked if I wanted to move in (I said no), said he wanted to get to know me better and be in my life. He texts me but I haven't seen him in three weeks. I do have a daughter that I don't plan on letting anyone around until it's serious, but I do share custody so 3 days a week i'm free and I always try to get together and he's always busy. We were actually supposed to get together last night and I didn't hear from him.
I just felt so emotional that I almost sent him a message telling him to walk away. He messages me and tells me we're a team when clearly we're not. He is also a terrible texter too. Should I tell him to walk away? Tell him to leave me alone and i'll contact him closer to when the baby is due? His behavior now just makes me wonder about how it will be when the baby is here. I would like for him to snap out of it and come around, I like him, but def don't love him so it's not a huge loss. I only have my mom for support near me but I haven't told her so I've just been feeling very alone in this.
I was on birth control and ended up pregnant by someone I had only been dating 6 weeks when I found out. I went back and fourth on the abortion or keep. Finally told him I didn't want an abortion and was going to leave it in gods hands. He agreed, asked if I wanted to move in (I said no), said he wanted to get to know me better and be in my life. He texts me but I haven't seen him in three weeks. I do have a daughter that I don't plan on letting anyone around until it's serious, but I do share custody so 3 days a week i'm free and I always try to get together and he's always busy. We were actually supposed to get together last night and I didn't hear from him.
I just felt so emotional that I almost sent him a message telling him to walk away. He messages me and tells me we're a team when clearly we're not. He is also a terrible texter too. Should I tell him to walk away? Tell him to leave me alone and i'll contact him closer to when the baby is due? His behavior now just makes me wonder about how it will be when the baby is here. I would like for him to snap out of it and come around, I like him, but def don't love him so it's not a huge loss. I only have my mom for support near me but I haven't told her so I've just been feeling very alone in this.