Hiya
Whilst i know the old adage of 'just relax' is complete bullocks (having been there tried that, gone on the holidays, stopped recording dates etc..) after two and a half years of pretty much the same type of cycle - this month I dont think I have ovulated.
I have only started taking my temps the last couple of months - and last cycle everything did what it was supposed to do and had a temp rise after I had EWCM and ov pains.
However - this month - i had ov pains for 4 days, EWCM for about 6 - but am now on CD21 - all EWCM gone - but no temp rise and for the first time ever my boobs arent sore (they always are from ov to about 7dpo).
SO i am pretty sure that i havnt ovulated.
this month I had my fertility appt. on cd12 - and was soooo super stressed about it. I was pretty much running to the loo every hour on the days running up to it and hardly slept (i am a very big stresser) and I am now concerned that this has made me not ovulate. is the old - stress stops you form ovulating thing correct AND if that is true - am i not going to be completely stressed next month worrying that my stress is going to stop me from ovulating hence will not ovulate!!!!!
Agghhhh - wish i had never started temping now.
I just dont know how to relax - i am one of those people who worry about the slightest thing - i do yoga and excercise which does calm me down - but unless i spend my life on a treadmill at some point i am going to go round the bend.![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)
![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)
Am i just having a crazy month??
Bx x
Whilst i know the old adage of 'just relax' is complete bullocks (having been there tried that, gone on the holidays, stopped recording dates etc..) after two and a half years of pretty much the same type of cycle - this month I dont think I have ovulated.
I have only started taking my temps the last couple of months - and last cycle everything did what it was supposed to do and had a temp rise after I had EWCM and ov pains.
However - this month - i had ov pains for 4 days, EWCM for about 6 - but am now on CD21 - all EWCM gone - but no temp rise and for the first time ever my boobs arent sore (they always are from ov to about 7dpo).
SO i am pretty sure that i havnt ovulated.
this month I had my fertility appt. on cd12 - and was soooo super stressed about it. I was pretty much running to the loo every hour on the days running up to it and hardly slept (i am a very big stresser) and I am now concerned that this has made me not ovulate. is the old - stress stops you form ovulating thing correct AND if that is true - am i not going to be completely stressed next month worrying that my stress is going to stop me from ovulating hence will not ovulate!!!!!
Agghhhh - wish i had never started temping now.
I just dont know how to relax - i am one of those people who worry about the slightest thing - i do yoga and excercise which does calm me down - but unless i spend my life on a treadmill at some point i am going to go round the bend.
![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)
![hissy :hissy: :hissy:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hissy.gif)
Am i just having a crazy month??
Bx x