yeah im kinda in the same boat.
First he said he wasn't sure he even wanted kids
Then he said he wants to wait cause he said it'd be too expensive
Then he said he wasn't worried about the finances, he just wasnt mentally ready
Then we thought I was pregnant and he got kind of excited but nervous
Then he said he was mentally ready but he just wanted to prepare himself for it mentally
Then he said we can start dtd without condoms but with the withdrawal method (im not on any bc)
Then we dtd a few times and he said "why dont you write "nc" on the calender for every time we have sex so when you get pregnant we know when we conceived"..
Then he said after sex "maybe youre pregnant now" ..without freaking out or anything..before dtd he said "lets do some baby making"..
Im like ?????? Im so confused....what DOES he want?!?
I think at first I was so wanting to be pregnant that it came across as pushy towards my husband, whenever he feels pushed he gets nervous and anxious and he goes the opposite direction (with anything).
Now I stopped nagging so much and stopped talking about it so much, just lil comments about baby stuff, and all of a sudden we're dtd without condoms.
Wonder what's next