I posted about this in another forum, but I figured I would ask here, too.
So we found out we are expecting baby girl #2. Yay! I always thought it would be really great to have a sister close in age to me that I could bond with. My sister is 9 years younger than me and we have never really been close so I always craved that growing up.
However, we thought we were having a boy and so did most people, apparently. That's another story that I won't get into because it could be triggering and not in the right forum--ANYWAY--
I just don't get why some people feel like they have a right to opinions on gender. And why some people feel the need to act disappointed when we tell them we are having another girl. I actually had one girl at work (who I had never met) look at me, make a disappointed face and say, "I think you're having a girl....but I hope you have a boy. Boys are so much fun".
I was also shocked when I found out it was a girl, but I have since gotten over that and now I am just excited and grateful for 2 healthy babies. However, I am still having a hard time coping when other people say things.
I just needed to talk to other moms who have gone through it because I just get really upset when people make remarks about it and I get exhausted having to come up with things to say back.
So we found out we are expecting baby girl #2. Yay! I always thought it would be really great to have a sister close in age to me that I could bond with. My sister is 9 years younger than me and we have never really been close so I always craved that growing up.
However, we thought we were having a boy and so did most people, apparently. That's another story that I won't get into because it could be triggering and not in the right forum--ANYWAY--
I just don't get why some people feel like they have a right to opinions on gender. And why some people feel the need to act disappointed when we tell them we are having another girl. I actually had one girl at work (who I had never met) look at me, make a disappointed face and say, "I think you're having a girl....but I hope you have a boy. Boys are so much fun".
I was also shocked when I found out it was a girl, but I have since gotten over that and now I am just excited and grateful for 2 healthy babies. However, I am still having a hard time coping when other people say things.
I just needed to talk to other moms who have gone through it because I just get really upset when people make remarks about it and I get exhausted having to come up with things to say back.