Resisting the title Wonky Cycles R Us....boarding the Maca Train to BFP Central!

[sparkle05]

I was surprised that they let me have the scan as well. When i phoned up to cancel the lady said " oh no my love we still want to see you" I'm so pleased because we didn't get offered any photos last week.
The sickness is coming and going. I had a bad day yesterday. I was sick on myself in the car so i popped home to change my work clothes. I remember changing and then kneeling over the toilet to be sick then he next thing i knew the phone was ringing and i thought it was my alarm clock at that it was time to get up lol. I had fainted in the bathroom and had been out cold for about 5 minutes
I am hoping to see an improvement soon as I'm 12 weeks now and the sickness and tiredness is really starting to take its toll on the family
Pregnancy sure can be a pain in the butt sometimes. I know it will all be worth it soon and this will be a distant memory

When is your scan ? Have you thought about weather you will find out what your having at the 20 week scan ? We have decided that we will Everyone is saying it's a boy so i cant wait to see if there right

 

[SBB]

Hey girls :wave: I know 1st tri is really scary and depressing, it's so sad sometimes but remember you have both had recent scans and seen heartbeats and so your chances of everything being fine are really high.

2nd tri is much happier and you'll both be there soon. It's also a lot more supportive. A lady was saying about gender preference (she was upset that she was feeling that way and wanted advice) and everyone was very supportive. I kind of feel the same, don't get me wrong I don't mind either way, a healthy baby is far and away the most important thing of all... But in my head my baby is a little girl, and it's what I've imagined.. So if they say boy at the scan it's kind of like I have to say goodbye to the little girl in my head and make a little boy! But genuinely I'm just so grateful to be pregnant I honestly don't mind at all... But I am finding out because I want to know!!!

Never I hope all that bloat is baby bloat

Ok forgotten everything else after writing all this!

X x x

 

[SBB]

Oh sparkle that sounds really scary, I hope you start to feel better very soon

X x x

 

[sparkle05]

Hey girls :wave: I know 1st tri is really scary and depressing, it's so sad sometimes but remember you have both had recent scans and seen heartbeats and so your chances of everything being fine are really high.

2nd tri is much happier and you'll both be there soon. It's also a lot more supportive. A lady was saying about gender preference (she was upset that she was feeling that way and wanted advice) and everyone was very supportive. I kind of feel the same, don't get me wrong I don't mind either way, a healthy baby is far and away the most important thing of all... But in my head my baby is a little girl, and it's what I've imagined.. So if they say boy at the scan it's kind of like I have to say goodbye to the little girl in my head and make a little boy! But genuinely I'm just so grateful to be pregnant I honestly don't mind at all... But I am finding out because I want to know!!!

Never I hope all that bloat is baby bloat

Ok forgotten everything else after writing all this!

X x x

Hi sbb, I'm wondering if that's the same lady because the one i read probably 11/12 days ago was awful. A lady had said for her to ignore the comments made as this certain lady is known for causing trouble on second tri . I have gone back to look for it but cant find it lol. I thought umm i might come back here in a few weeks lol. I am very grateful to be pregnant too and wouldn't mind what we have, but like you say you get it into your head that its going to be a certain gender. I think it's very brave for people to come forward with there feelings It kind of makes you feel normal.
How is you sickness doing has it eased up yet ? My little girl put her hands on her hips yesterday while i was being sick and said " mummy i think i have had enough of this now "

 

[nevertogether]

hi all finally settled down after baking and doing the dishes. been trying to keep up with everyone and stuff, but i'm in my own little world right now i think. just wanted to tell everyone TTC right now (welshie, TNT, jam, delilah, yazzy, ttcbaby, wispy) that i am wishing you all the best of luck and lots of !!!

celtic - still so happy for you honey!!
linny - thank you for all of the support babe..
SBB - you rock girl!!! you've always been there to answer questions for me and such and i appreciate it
sparkle - glad to know and hear that your sticky bean is doing well. still feels like i can remember the day you announced!!

thanks girls

 

[SBB]

Aw bless her Sparkle that's funny!! at least I Haven't actually been sick I just feel it I actually feel ok today... FX that continues!

Hope yours goes it must be such hard work throwing up all the time when you've got a family to look after...

Some threads I can see why people get annoyed and certain people just post to start an argument, but generally it's nice when people are supportive!

X x x

 

[Linny]

OMG sparkle hun, thats is awful!! You seem to have been really unlucky with everything you've dealt with. You poor thing big BIG

We're paying for one on saturday in Scotland cos we're off for the weekend to see OH's family, excited and very nervous!

At first I wasn't gonna find out the sex, we both agreed but then OH put a spanner in the works by saying he would actually like to know so we can be more organised with things. He said he's 60:40 and is leaving it up to me so Ive a few weeks to think about it. i'm pretty nosy so I'l prob cave

SBB....thanks sweet! Ive read quite a few MMC stories about babies dying at 8wks which was when I had my last scan so it keeps playing in the back of my head! I've heard its good to have seen a heartbeat so I'm concentrating on that

Can't wait to find out what your both having

 

[Linny]

Awwww never, your so concerned about everyone else testing and sending babydust i thought I'd send you some too

 

[SBB]

Aw thanks Never you're so sweet

Linny I know I was the same. Love this forum but it does make you more paranoid... Don't you worry everything will be just perfect

X x x

 

[Linny]

Thankyou SBB....your fab for the PMA!!

Sparkle.....I just read that about your daughter......awwww how cute!!

 

[nevertogether]

linny - do you still have your chart up? im at the obsessing part of my cycle

 

[AJThomas]

Yay my maca is here! The other set was done so I can start taking it again now.

Sparkle your daughter is so cute!

Never I'm keeping my eye on u.

 

[Linny]

Ahhhh how do I get the link to my old chart on FF.....Ive forgotten! I've logged in but can't remeber what else to do

 

[nevertogether]

you go to sharing and then home page set up and then it's the top length been forever huh!!

 

[nevertogether]

AJ - about the maca!

 

[Linny]

Ha ha jeez yep it has been a while!

My chart was VERY strange so here it is

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2b5975

 

[jam-on-toast]

Good Luck lovley Maca ladies.

I'm out.x.x.x

 

[ttcbaby117]

SBB - Oh that is soooo wonderful! I am soooo happy for you.....I cant even imagine what a great feeling that must be!

CEltic - OMG!!!! I am soooo happy for you! This is such wonderful news!!!!!

Never - lovin your bloating and high temps....I have my fxed for you!

Linny - congrats on 11 weeks....this is so great


My my, I havent been on a fews days dealing with pre op stuff and family but wow such great news to come back to!!!

My surgery is at 10:3 tomorrow morning and I am nervous but need to get it over with. I think my mom is more nervous than me to be honest. Poor thing, I guess it doesnt end even when your children are grown adults! Anyway, I will try to get on and give you guys an update. I hope I return with some more BFP's....never and delia, I am watching out for you two!

 

[CelticNiamh]

look how bloated i am today! my tummy is usually flat. its almost so bloated to the point i think im going to POP! LOL

whoa nice, hope it baby bloat and your so lovely thinking of every one else hun

Hello ladies

Linny I agree with you about 1st tri. I have been on there a couple of times and it makes me worry even more. I had a peek on second tri the other day and there was an argument taking place between some of the women about one lady preferring a certain gender lol. I came off there and thought i may look again in a few weeks. Poor woman was only saying how she was feeling
Hows it going linny ? I have another scan tomorrow to check all is well.

Never, you will get that BFP i know you will

I was surprised that they let me have the scan as well. When i phoned up to cancel the lady said " oh no my love we still want to see you" I'm so pleased because we didn't get offered any photos last week.
The sickness is coming and going. I had a bad day yesterday. I was sick on myself in the car so i popped home to change my work clothes. I remember changing and then kneeling over the toilet to be sick then he next thing i knew the phone was ringing and i thought it was my alarm clock at that it was time to get up lol. I had fainted in the bathroom and had been out cold for about 5 minutes
I am hoping to see an improvement soon as I'm 12 weeks now and the sickness and tiredness is really starting to take its toll on the family
Pregnancy sure can be a pain in the butt sometimes. I know it will all be worth it soon and this will be a distant memory

When is your scan ? Have you thought about weather you will find out what your having at the 20 week scan ? We have decided that we will Everyone is saying it's a boy so i cant wait to see if there right

OOH you poor thing, I hope it eases off though as the placenta takes over from now on so at least by 14 weeks hub

Hey girls :wave: I know 1st tri is really scary and depressing, it's so sad sometimes but remember you have both had recent scans and seen heartbeats and so your chances of everything being fine are really high.

2nd tri is much happier and you'll both be there soon. It's also a lot more supportive. A lady was saying about gender preference (she was upset that she was feeling that way and wanted advice) and everyone was very supportive. I kind of feel the same, don't get me wrong I don't mind either way, a healthy baby is far and away the most important thing of all... But in my head my baby is a little girl, and it's what I've imagined.. So if they say boy at the scan it's kind of like I have to say goodbye to the little girl in my head and make a little boy! But genuinely I'm just so grateful to be pregnant I honestly don't mind at all... But I am finding out because I want to know!!!

Never I hope all that bloat is baby bloat

Ok forgotten everything else after writing all this!

X x x

SBB I love the way you describe that, your bang on ! we have a picture in our heads then it not what we thought we adjust but sometimes when you express your feeling some one always jumps on the moral band wagon. eek

Ha ha jeez yep it has been a while!

My chart was VERY strange so here it is

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2b5975

Linny you can see were bubs was implanting! you never put in your + BFP I think you should

Good Luck lovely Maca ladies.

I'm out.x.x.x

So sorry Jam

Girls I was in a TTC group called Try to have fun TCC but I set up TTHFUTD pregnancy club its all about keeping the fun in the whole pregnancy journey and a closer group as I think you can get lost in the frist tri the groups are soooo big and they feel a little impersonal just me may be. this thread and the TCC one are my favourite on here. so if any one wants the link I will post it for you

 

[CelticNiamh]

SBB - Oh that is soooo wonderful! I am soooo happy for you.....I cant even imagine what a great feeling that must be!

CEltic - OMG!!!! I am soooo happy for you! This is such wonderful news!!!!!

Never - lovin your bloating and high temps....I have my fxed for you!

Linny - congrats on 11 weeks....this is so great


My my, I havent been on a fews days dealing with pre op stuff and family but wow such great news to come back to!!!

My surgery is at 10:3 tomorrow morning and I am nervous but need to get it over with. I think my mom is more nervous than me to be honest. Poor thing, I guess it doesnt end even when your children are grown adults! Anyway, I will try to get on and give you guys an update. I hope I return with some more BFP's....never and delia, I am watching out for you two!

OOH thanks hun, good luck tomorrow

I have a voucher to get my hair cut must get around to useing it, I so need to colour my hair but Im at a loss at what colour to chose I dont want it to dark and I fancy a red but Im afraid I will have a bagger strip light roots and dark ends