Resisting the title Wonky Cycles R Us....boarding the Maca Train to BFP Central!

[WhisperOfHope]

Lindsey how long have you been ttc? Your doc shouldn't be fobbing you off like that....
Once you finally get your AF have you thought about using soy to bring ovulation forward?

X x x

im gonna use sy next cycle yeh we have been trying for a year now but in reality its only been a few mths as i still had a septate hymen until 2 cycles ago ish so we are counting it as just 2 cycles ttc as nothing really ever got in when had the hymen problem

 

[SBB]

Ok... Still think your doc should be taking it seriously... 80day cycles are not normal! I hope AF arrives soon so you can start the soy. And temping will help hopefully cos you'll know if it's worked!

X x x

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Ok... Still think your doc should be taking it seriously... 80day cycles are not normal! I hope AF arrives soon so you can start the soy. And temping will help hopefully cos you'll know if it's worked!

X x x

my doctors to put it nicely are idiots iw ent for bllod tests cd 21 bloods and eneded up coming away coverd in bruises without blood taken i had an apointment with the nurse but the day iw as ment to go they rang and canceld on me told me i had to see the doctor who decided it woul;d be funn to wiggle the needles about numerouse times inside dif parts of each are ( im petrafied of needles) then after 15 mins he said oh il have to get a cathater on this not i was out of there no way was i letting him do it

 

[Lucy1973]

Lindsey that's awful, what the heck kind of a practise are they running that they can't even take blood? They should have a nurse who does all the blood tests at the surgery, or send you to the hospital where they do it in 5 seconds and you don't feel a thing! I am stunned at the real stupidity of your doctor! I would probably write a complaint letter to the local authority/nhs chief exec in the area.....I would demand a better service, you deserve to be taken seriously, to think how much money your gp earns.....sorry ranting now.....but can't believe how bad your experience has been!!

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Lindsey that's awful, what the heck kind of a practise are they running that they can't even take blood? They should have a nurse who does all the blood tests at the surgery, or send you to the hospital where they do it in 5 seconds and you don't feel a thing! I am stunned at the real stupidity of your doctor! I would probably write a complaint letter to the local authority/nhs chief exec in the area.....I would demand a better service, you deserve to be taken seriously, to think how much money your gp earns.....sorry ranting now.....but can't believe how bad your experience has been!!

one of the reasons why i avoid the doctors at all expence lol also NOT having a baby at our local hospital will be going to germany i hate our health service in milton keynes

 

[Lucy1973]

I don't blame you, it sounds rubbish! I live on the coast now and my doc is great. Although I did have to make a complaint recently to the local hospital because of how bad my experience was during miscarriage, they have actually made some changes because of this...ie not to scan women going through miscarriage in the same place as happy pregnant women!


Hopefully you will find a great doc in Germany! xxx

You are right, I wouldn't risk having a baby in a rubbish hospital!

 

[SBB]

one of the reasons why i avoid the doctors at all expence lol also NOT having a baby at our local hospital will be going to germany i hate our health service in milton keynes

That's near where I live! I am in a village though and my nearest docs are actually quite good. I'm under Milton Keynes hopsital though... May change to Bedford!

I think you should ask your doc to be referred to a specialist. They may say no, but as they're so rubbish they may be glad to palm you off on someone else!!

x x x

 

[SBB]

PS Hi Lucy :wave:

x x x

 

[WhisperOfHope]

one of the reasons why i avoid the doctors at all expence lol also NOT having a baby at our local hospital will be going to germany i hate our health service in milton keynes

That's near where I live! I am in a village though and my nearest docs are actually quite good. I'm under Milton Keynes hopsital though... May change to Bedford!

I think you should ask your doc to be referred to a specialist. They may say no, but as they're so rubbish they may be glad to palm you off on someone else!!

x x x

im hoping when i eventualy become preg il be under oxford anyway due to my uterus ive heard good things about bedford unlike mk! ive asked my doc to refer me for further tests to see how bad my bc is but she flat out refused same as when i needed physio on my knee

 

[Lucy1973]

Hi SBB

Lindsey I really think you need a new doc, flat out refuse!!!!! ?????

Bet you will find a good one when you move, can't be any worse really!

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Hi SBB

Lindsey I really think you need a new doc, flat out refuse!!!!! ?????

Bet you will find a good one when you move, can't be any worse really!

nope it sure cant i cant wait to move out of mk but that wont be for a few years yet we are still at my parents atm as had some money troubel couldnt afford to move what sucks big time hoping to be in our own house in jan we shall see if that happens lol

 

[Lucy1973]

I am surprised there are not more docs in your area, in my area there are loads of surgeries I could belong to, at least 5/6 in the area.

I understand money probs, that is why I only started TTC at 37! It must be tricky TTC at your parents....lol...hope you can get your own place soon.

 

[WhisperOfHope]

I am surprised there are not more docs in your area, in my area there are loads of surgeries I could belong to, at least 5/6 in the area.

I understand money probs, that is why I only started TTC at 37! It must be tricky TTC at your parents....lol...hope you can get your own place soon.

it is lol can only dtd at night when they are in bed as my mum has a habbit of walking in the room! but if we wait until we are financialy stable we could be waiting years lol

 

[Lucy1973]

Yes, to be honest if I got preg now, and had a baby next May, I would still be in debt until the baby is two, but like you said can't wait any longer, I have waited long enough!

My parents came to stay for 3 nights last week, I was praying I wouldn't Ov then, as I just can't bd with them in the house, lucky it didn't happen.

 

[WhisperOfHope]

Yes, to be honest if I got preg now, and had a baby next May, I would still be in debt until the baby is two, but like you said can't wait any longer, I have waited long enough!

My parents came to stay for 3 nights last week, I was praying I wouldn't Ov then, as I just can't bd with them in the house, lucky it didn't happen.

lol i love it when mum goers away with dad for the night we get some us time

 

[ttcbaby117]

never-sorry about feeling insecure...it must be even harder because the DH isnt with you ya know. Did something happen that set you off, or is it our lovely female hormones....

Dandy - hi hun, I really hope you get the BFP soon.

Welsh - you are so funny...chart stalking duties!!!!

Lucy - OPKs are a great idea...I dont think you have oved yet...so keep on bding!

TNT - OMG, I saw that documetary also and I felt the same exact way! Seriously, it looks impossible, how is this earth over populated???? They also suspected I had PCOS, but was still ovulating...I told my surgeon this when I had my surgery and he said...No honey your ovaries are fine....shows what a third workd doctor will do...ugh. Since then I have decided I will only go to a OBGYN in the states and here if it is a emergency.

Whit - if only we could all log into our PS3's and get our baby..LOL...Why are they puttin you on Metformin?

Lindsay - I am so with the other ladies you should not feel that way when you go to see your Dr....see what you can do about finding another. OMG, you need to tell your mum you are trying to make her a grandbaby and she cant be barging into your room...LOL

afm - heading over to see my dr for my check up next week. I hope they will order some tests to make sure all is ok after the surgery. Also to pick up my mother in law from her surgery. It will be nice to be away and see my family.

 

[ttcbaby117]

Hi SBB

 

[Lucy1973]

Hi ttc baby

Well I am knackered from all the when Ov is 10 days late and you don't use OPK's, you gotta go for it every other day! I am gonna buy a bunch if I don't catch this egg!! I hope I get a proper temp spike tomorrow and the Ov might be today, I have had loads of Ovulation pain....OH has been amazing considering he is 41!

Hope your check up goes really well

 

[WhisperOfHope]

im such a numb nut just looked at my order for my maca and ive sent it to the wrong house number!

 

[Lucy1973]

Oh No!!!! lol....