results from doctor and oh trouble :(

[youngmummy2be]

well my hcg is at 24! i m/c 7 weeks ago now, explains my BFPs!

also started bleeding thurs, presume this is my period. its so heavy its untrue. im changing my towel so much! sorry if too much info!

had such a lovely weekend at my OHs. we went to see my grandparents today in manchester.. now weve just got back and ive come home and hes going casino. we have no money at mo as its a 6 weeks gap from payday before crimbo and from being spoilt at xmas ! now hes wasteing his money there.

on the insecure side, he thinks one of the dealers is 'reem' (basically, REALLY hot), so wile im looking my worst, as ive had the flu as it is plus this horrible bleeding, im going to be the most paranoid person ever i hate him going , not just becos of that , because of money too

i feel silly yet so sad because now this will cause arguments. plus were looking for a place of our own and going to start trying again

 

[shelleney]

Hi Hun.
Sorry to hear you are in a rubbish place right now.
I hope you get better soon, and that the bleeding calms down.
Also, if your OH is upsetting you, you need to tell him. He may not realise that what he is doing upsets you. Hope you have a proper talk and sort it out soon
xx

 

[rose dove]

Hugs

Sorry to hear about your loss.








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[croydongirl]

I had a very strange thing with my hcg after loss too. It was only 12 when i first got blood tests done and dropped to 6.5 then 4 weeks later is was 17! But a week after that it dropped again to 4 (which is a negative result) I am so sorry for all you're going through, and I hope it feels liek getting back to normal soon.

Sorry your OH is not being as supportive as he could be, but guys handle grief and disappointment very differently than we do, he could just need to get this "grief" out of his system. I hope he is back to normal soon, and there for you in every way you need.

 

[NewB]

sry about ur loss. i mc'd last month at 4 weeks. Tlk to ur man and let him know. sometimes they dnt know we're upset til we break down. im sure he'll understand.