Ridiculously emotional

[jo14]

I am not a person that cries very often, I mean hardly ever, but these last couple of weeks, the smallest thing is upseting me, I should be happy and I am but its as though I cant help thinking bad things and susupecting things that are not even happening, and keep crying, I posted on the over 35s board about something my OH did which maybe normally would not have bothered me or not as much as it is but today has left me an emotional wreck, I just cant stop crying, I want him to come home from work but know I am going to go crazy at him I am also nauseus ALL DAY which is not helping me feel great and I cant sleep properly so am tired all day, I am also sure I was never this sickly and defo no this emotional in my other pregnancies .

Moan over

on a positive note I am thinking of booking myself in for an early reassurance scan privatley I cant really afford it but I think I will treat myself lol

 

[v2007]

V xxx

 

[firsttimetry]

Treat yourself it will make you feel better. Don't worry Hun, I went into mammas and papas to buy a top today and came out and cried to my OH... Because every other woman in there had a bump and I don't :0( therefore feeling like a fraud!

 

[jo14]

thanks I just feel like my OH is letting me down at the mo and he has always been such a great support and when I need it most he seems to be just upseting me, bloody hormones, and you will have your bump soon xxxxx

 

[stickylizard]

I just wanted to say I read the other post on over 35s and YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL I cant believe you are over 35! Men are just losers, even the ones we love. My OH is lovely and kind and helps out - but he's an insensitive loser too at times and I could knock his block off lol. I say you're right to be annoyed and I would confront him about it, if you do over react then explain youre pregnant and things which normally wouldnt be acceptable anyway are affecting you loads. And ask for a reason why. Sorry to be vague not sure you want it on this forum so I'm trying to be discreet haha. Small things truly bother me at the moment too. Lately I have felt like because I have a baby and am pregnant I have no friends cus nobody wants to know me at the moment :[ I'm only 22 (almost) and everyone else my age is drinking and partying and I wish that didnt mean they have to ignore me because I cant. I thought friendship was based on more than that ya know. Sorry, I digress Feel better hun xxx

 

[jo14]

I just wanted to say I read the other post on over 35s and YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL I cant believe you are over 35! Men are just losers, even the ones we love. My OH is lovely and kind and helps out - but he's an insensitive loser too at times and I could knock his block off lol. I say you're right to be annoyed and I would confront him about it, if you do over react then explain youre pregnant and things which normally wouldnt be acceptable anyway are affecting you loads. And ask for a reason why. Sorry to be vague not sure you want it on this forum so I'm trying to be discreet haha. Small things truly bother me at the moment too. Lately I have felt like because I have a baby and am pregnant I have no friends cus nobody wants to know me at the moment :[ I'm only 22 (almost) and everyone else my age is drinking and partying and I wish that didnt mean they have to ignore me because I cant. I thought friendship was based on more than that ya know. Sorry, I digress Feel better hun xxx

thanks I am nearly 37 eeekkk but my OH is only 28, and I dont mind it being on here, and i would rather he look at people he does not know rather than ones he works with everyday and why do it behind my back he talks about her enough (even in a derogitary way) why not say let look at those photos of her then as he knows im nosy and would look, i wonder if its like a school boy he talks about her so much as he does like her!!!!!! and i know I cant let it go I will be raising it with him tonight and he will get all defensive (as he does whenever he gets caught out on anything) refuse to talk to me and go to bed in a huff, Im wondering if i can do it almost lighthearted and first and say hey stop perving on work mates you it came up on our computer and see if he wants to offer and explanation, and I hope you feel better soon to, I had my first baby at 21 and lost most of my friends then, but dont forget real friends will stick by you and still be there even if you cant go out with them everyweekend, I have ONE thats all but its better than none lol

 

[magicteapot]

Huggles I know how you feel, periods are bad at the best of time for hormones but this is constant + sickness + extra anxiety = badness! Plus its really debilitating as well that can't really do things that would make you feel lots better (going shopping, i think the sight of objects make me queasy sometimes lol!).
But defo I would say if you are worried and have a good doc/nurse then they can be reassuring, and when you get your midwife you get all their contact details (I have to restrain myself from phoning them up all the time tho hehe!). Also I find it good to ring up my sister or mum and complain for hours, and then cry. Crying seems to help the sickness for some raisen. Strange fo sho! But we are all here to talk to so if you have any worries we will try our best Much xx

 

[magicteapot]

I should probably say I currently feel like having a large tantrum, then crying and throwing up lol! xx

 

[Wantingbbbump]

I was the same way!! I still cry over everything and I am NOT a person that cries. I also feared everything and always thought that something was wrong. I was so sick with this baby that I couldn't eat and when I did it all came back up and I lost 10lbs. It seemed like as I got closer to week 12 my MS got better and now I can't stop eating. I am so hungry that I cry if I don't get food fast enough. I feel like such a baby. My Dh thinks that I am going crazy because I am happy one min and either crying or yelling the next. You'd think that with this being my 5th baby that this wouldn't happen because I was never ever like this with my other kids.