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So, I planned to do a whole big announcement tonight but im sitting at work at the moment and im so bored! So here goes...

WE'RE HAVING A GIRL!!!! :D
Im so excited! Actually so is OH. He keeps referring to us as "his girls" its quite sweet :)
We've already spent (or I should say, I've already spent) so much money on clothes, they are gorgeous!! :)

Well I shall do ny best to pop on tonight and reply properly!! :)
Take care xx
 
I've tested this weekend all negatives....so I guess....I'll see what the fertility doc says :\ I hate this waiting crap!
 
Hello girls!!! So sorry for the long lapse, work has been crazy busy and then we went out of town this weekend. That guy that went out on disability for his foot surgery a couple months ago, came back for two weeks and then went out on disability again! He's a diabetic that takes really poor care of himself and I suspect they may have to amputate his foot. I feel bad for him, but he's such a jerk, it's hard to feel too bad. Anyway, I'm taking over his duties again and I feel like I never have time at work to get on here anymore!

I went to San Diego see my two best friends (one from childhood and one from college) that had their baby girls in Dec/Jan. It was great catching up and Quinn got to play with their babies and one of them has a 2 year old son too. It was really great.

My baby girl is growing every day, she's over 2 lbs now and already has hair I guess! I only have a marginal previa now but they've still advised me to be on pelvic rest. Well...:blush: we have been except for once. My poor husband says his penis is going to shrivel up and fall off! LOL! But it was really uncomfortable and I don't think we'll be trying again until after the babe comes!

House hunting still sucks as bad as it ever did. We put more offers in, lost more houses and so and and so on. My mom is letting us continue to stay at this house for as long as we need, she's not interested in selling it yet anyway. I'd much rather move and get a nursery started soon but we'll take whatever we can get. I'm grateful for having a nice home in the meantime.

Oh and we've been discussing names even more...the big contender right now is Daisy...Is that too much like a dog's name?? Cause I kind of love it! So, there's Daisy Marie, Holly Marie, Avery Marie and Amelia Marie. Anybody like any of those more than others?

OK, enough about me...

Steph honey, it's great that your numbers are still rising, like the others have said, sometimes numbers don't quite double but things are still going fine. It's super positive that you haven't had any spotting and cramping. Hang in there, do not give up!!! When is your appt this week? And screw your boss, she sounds like she's difficult. Ugh! Hope everything else is great with you!

Tanya that's crazy Emma's still not here yet (but I would've killed you if she came and you didn't text me! LOL) Try to keep walking...OH and I just heard that one of the best methods for getting the hips open and ready for labor is squats. Def do about 30 squats a day, I don't think you'll regret it! Hope this heat isn't too unbearable for you! And don't worry too much about a c-sec, I'm sure you can do it on your own and in the worst case scenario, if you can't, I PROMISE you it's not that bad. I was pleasantly surprised!

Jenn, your new pic of Cameron is so freakin' cute, I just want to kiss all over his cheeks! I hope all is going well with getting adjusted to him. Glad your mom came to visit but wish she could've stayed longer. :( And I agree, you have to have more babies...even if it's a football team! :)

Amanda, a little girl! Yay! So exciting!!! That's why you were so sick the first tri. What names are you thinking? That's great that you've already bought her so much, you're sure to be super ready once she comes! What a lucky little girl to have a mommy who wants her and loves her so much! :) Hugs!

And Mandy, you too! We're all having girls woohoo!!! I love the name Alyson, that's very pretty. Matty and Aly! :) Hope you're feeling better and better and that the sickness and headaches are staying away. I know how you feel about not having another shower...I think we'll just do a really small family one but not go all out like last time. Hope you're doing well!

Beth it sounds like you might be right around the corner from O'ing! I pray pray pray that you do and can catch that sticky bean this month. I remember using one of those FS tests Steph was talking about and it helped to bring up my morale. It was more about not timing things right than not having a good egg reserve. So hope this is the case for you! We're all rooting for you dear!

Andi, so sorry to hear about the cyst that just blows. I heard that cysts are usually caused by an egg trying to get released that never happens for some reason and then it just grows and grows. I had a cyst on my left ovary at the beginning of this pregnancy for awhile that I never felt...until they told me about it and then I felt the pain! Can't wait for an update on the girls so hope you get them! I mean, it's pretty for sure, right, it's just a matter of when? And your neighbor sounds like a troll...hope she doesn't cause you any more drama and stress!

Love you all and miss you very much! Hope I can get on more regularly soon!
 
Yea just sick of all my neighbors and their drama praying they all move away soon. Today I've been a wreck crying for no reason etc. I feel like AF is coming but its not time yet and I'm on bc pills have no clue what the heck my body is doing :( I've missed a pill on accident of my bc pills I hope it doesnt let me ovulate....ehhh if it did I'm CRAPPED for this assisted cycle. I think we are doing trying ladies.....its really becoming a heartbreaker for me and I've seen friends go through 2 babies on this website already it kills me to see them with 4 month old babies an get pregnant again :( if only I could just get ONE baby damn it :( ....I'm not trying to be a downer just feel really sad right now that me and Jason can't have kids and he feels the stress of it all as well :( Hes been showing it and talking bout it but acts like it doesnt matter....but I know to him it does!
 
AMANDA!!! Congrats on a little girl!!!! Soooooo excited for you - I just knew you were having a girl!!!!! yaaay!

Ash, LOVE all the names! Annnd you're using my middle name hehehehe!

Jenn, love the new pic of Cameron - he's so adorable and I can't believe 2weeks already!!!

Well.... yesterday hubby and I walked around doing some errands and grocery shopping. Then mom and I went for a 2 mile walk last night. I bought fresh pineapple and used the core to make a smoothie (I read that the core has the most of the chemical the supposedly helps encourage labor) and I ate a ton of the fresh fruit too. Obviously didn't do much good yet.... Mom and I are gonna walk this morning. Oh and ladies.... I'm totally OK if we end up with a c-section. I'm not the least bit scared of it.

Well, mom is ready for the walk, and I want to get out there before the heat comes!

Catch up more later.

:hugs:
 
Amanda that is so exciting you are having a girl:) If we all ever meet, my boy is going to have his hands full with all of these girls hgehehe.

Ashley-sorry work is so stressful right now with you having to take on extra duties. Soon enough you will be out enjoying your baby girl! Hope your able to find a house soon,I know doing nurseries is exciting!

Tanya-Hope it goes for you soon! The doc hasnt talked about inducing or anything yet? A friend of mine is having her baby tonight, they decided to induce her cause she is only 1cm dialated. She was going to be due 7/30. I cant wait to see your girl! I cant wait to get that txt! I had bought a big fruit tray from sams and ate all the pineapple and half the other fruit to the day i went into labor but like i say it could have ben coincidence. i was craving fruit that day.
I still think about how he was born 4 weeks early. He was born 1 day before the baby would have been born that I had an early miscarriage with. I know my HCG level went to 0 before I got preg the next month with Cameron but WOW its crazy. He is my little angel:)
 
Oh Ashley I love the name Holly Marie....if I had a girl her name was going to be Arianna Siri:) Means Gods gift of love:)

Tanya enjoy your walk!
 
Happy 2 Wks to Cameron!! :)

Tanya--I hope Emma makes out soon!! I keep telling you--little Diva.. LOL..

Andi--Sorry its been hard on you hun..I know how you feel... I've actually quit going anywhere but this thread because it is hard to see ladies who have young babies and then BAM end up pregnant again.. I mean, I wouldn't be 'jealous' if my sisters had that happen, but I think its the sheer magnitude of those that have 1 month-6 month olds and they are stressing about the next baby, or they are getting pregnant so fast... 2 more days till my scan.. I think the stress of it all is hitting pretty bad..I'm tired, and noticed feeling nauseated at night right before bed and after getting up the first time in the am to pee.. I found a swelled up lymphnode on the back of my head by my ear saturday..:growlmad: explains some of the neck pain I had for awhile.. Anyhoo...I hope your appointment goes good with the FS :hugs:

Mandy--I love the name Aly (Alyson) and Ashe--The only name that stuck out to me was: Avery Marie.. Very fond of the name Avery... Daisy--Well... I think its "cute" but there is so many stereotypes to that name.. Like Daisy Duke, or yeah, a name for a dog.. SORRY...

Amanda--GREAT NEWS!! CONGRATS another GIRL!!! :happydance::happydance::happydance: Thought of any names yet??

Brooke--Hope your doing good! :hugs:

I feel like I'm forgetting someone..Sorry if I have... I don't come into work this week till 9:30 and enjoying the chance to sleep in..:) I started feeling cramping over the weekend, but not spotting or anything like that..Going to go and play my FB games..Hee Hee...Being in the naproom has it perks..LOL :)
 
I don't think they'll do anything this cycle b/c of the 6cm cyst :( its a little over 2 inches.....so who knows....I guess we'll wait an see what happens all I know is this shit is causing so much pain its unreal right now. I just want them to get it out ASAP!

I think we are honestly done TTC :( me and Jason are having a rough time :(......we just want things to hurry up and be done and seems like you take a step forward and about a dozen back!

Hoping and praying your scan goes well :)
 
hi ladies.

Andi...i'm sorry your having such a rough time. I really hope that things get better for you in every aspect. lots of love!

Steph....I still ahve good feelings this time that your scan will show a beating heart. i'm praying for you and lo

jenn...yeah i would say that would be hard to find.... have you ever seen office space with teh guy whose name was michael Bolton? the only thing I had similar to that was when I was growing up, there was another amanda who had the same last name as me (my maiden name) and one time this girl came up to me in gym class "So My sister beat you up last night" and I was like "what? Do I look beat up?" i'll make sure to accept your friend request

ashe...so glad that it's only marginal now. dont' worry, my hubby says similar things but i'm just not into it at all with this pregnancy. With matty I wanted it all the time adn then at 24 weeks i was told no more because I was bleeding and it sucks big time. oh and I'm partial to Amelia myself out of all the names you mentioned.

Tanya....it's good that your not scared of a csection...it will be easier to accept should it happen however as my doctor told me, it's always better to go natural if you can. mine wasn't that bad either, I just hated that i couldn't do the things I normally too for granted...like sitting up. Either way, Emma will be beautiful and healthy and that's all that counts.

Amanda....congrats. looks like we're both team pink!

so for me... well I still get sick every once and a while but it's good for the most part...oh and i can for sure eat chicken again which is nice since that was my protein of choice most of the time. Aly is moving like crazy, especially to music and the vacuum. Won't it be a big surprise if we go in for the second ultrasound and they say, oh we missed something and Aly becomes Zach? haha, I'll be happy either way. hopefully she'll open her legs more (and that's the only time I want her to do that,...) and we can tell for sure. I really want to start getting cute little girl outfits.

Hubby is still kind of monopolizing the man pc so I haven't had a real chance to go on and scan the pic we got. Like i said though, it's not that clear, hence why I have to go back on the 26th

I hope everyone is having an alright day today. Love you lots!
 
Mom and I walked 2 and a half miles this morning, and I'm sure we'll walk again tonight after dinner. I had another pineapple/kiwi/mango smoothie today at lunch. I got checked again this afternoon, and even with all the walking and pineapple and contractions (which have been a TON of them) I'm still only 1cm!!

I did some reading online and it seems that the ingredients in the eggplant parmesan that Jenn keeps telling me to try is the oregano and basil. And since hubby won't eat eggplant parmesan, I've decided to make spaghetti with TONS of oregano and basil for dinner tonight! LOL I have some fresh oregano that I put in, and I also used dried oregano and basil - and I'm talkin' A TON of it!!! :rofl: I'll eat some more pineapple for dessert, and go for another 2 mile walk tonight. Yeah, I'm probably just being impatient, should just let Emma come when she's ready.... but jeeeeeesh....
 
Hi girls....how is everyone tonight?

Ashe, I've always loved the name Holly!:thumbup:But they're all really pretty and I know you can't wait for your little girl to get here.:hugs:

Tanya, I bet it will be soon for you! Your super-duper-labor-inducing spaghetti just might do the trick:winkwink:FX'd for you

Steph, hope your cramping has eased up and you're feeling better:hugs:

Amanda, awww, a little girl! You must be so happy and excited:pink:Congrats!

Nothing much here...I'm going to use an OPK in a little while and see what I get:wacko:

Hugs everyone:hugs:
 
Well ladies... I ate a ton of that spaghetti last night. It was super yummy, and I kinda overate, I ended up not feeling up to walking, mom and I had walked around all day yesterday and my feet were tired. About 4 hours after dinner I ended up with a mild bout of diarhea (probably all the oregano) and then just went to bed.

This morning I woke up in a new frame of mind. I'm tired of TRYING to make this happen only to be discouraged when there is no progress. So, I've decided, Emma just isn't ready, and if by the time she's ready she's too big for me then we'll just have the csection, and that'll be that. I'm causing myself more grief by trying to make it happen and then being let down by lack of progress. It doesn't help that yesterday the nurse who checked me was rather rude and cold. I'm gonna keep up my walks and exercise, but I think that's about it.....

Hope everyone is doing well.... I'll check back in tomorrow probably.
 
I still don't like that Doctors automatically think that because a baby is bigger than 7lbs it automatically means you have to be cut open.

Both my husband and his sister were over 8lbs and both were born vaginally and from what my MIL says rather quickly too.

My advice is to just wait and see how it plays out and don't think about how she'll be born. I know you said that it doesn't matter to you and your not scared of a c section but you don't want to do that if you don't have to. I think your fine...besides she's not actually due till the end of July right? doctors have been wrong before about birth weight....actually all the time they are wrong. just keep doing what your doing...if at all, walking is good for you and that just make her weight stay average anyway.


Jenn...my hubby saw that I added you and facebook and said "You added jennifer Lopez as a friend on facebook?" He's such a goofball sometimes.


I wanted to ask...I've been finding that since I got pregnant my nipples have been super sensitive. Now when I was pg with my son, any breast tenderness was gone by the second Trimester but it's not going away this time....i wonder if that means i'll have more success with Breast feeding this time around....Just thought it was odd.
 
Hey ladies for craps an giggles I took a test today I guess my cyst is giving me the lightest lines....probably a screen tilter but deffo something there lol.....Thursday couldn't get here any faster....this thing is KILLING ME!:coffee::cry:

I wasn't supposed to deliver over an 8lb baby because I had prior c-section so I was VBAC an the doc says the baby will be around 7lb....okay GREAT :) soooooo as I push him out the doc freaks an starts sewing away for a whole hour before my placenta could even come out b/c I was pouring blood....my son wasn't 7lb LOL he was 8lb 7.5 oz...and he ripped me to shreds LMAO!! I couldn't sit for 2 months literallY!
 

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Mandy thats to funny about your hubby hehe and the girl with the same name as you lol youd think they would think about who they are really talkin about duuuh haha.

Tanya-Not trying to get your hopes up or anything but for 3 days prior to my water breaking I had diarrehea and like I said these things could all just be coincidence:/ Did the nurse say is you were thinned at all? Maybe your not dilating but if your thinning thats just as good because the thinner you are the easier you water breaks and if your water breaks no matter how much your dilated there is no stopping:) Hope she makes her apperance for you soon! I know your anxious and with all that walking your going to be back at pre pregnancy size by time you leave the hospital hehe!

Steph-I bet you are very nervous about the u/s tomorrow! I will try to get on to see how it goes otherwise just text me.

Baby Cameron just started to cry so I will try to get on later. Love you all!
 
Sorry didnt make it here at naptime so on my phone.. Hope Emma makes it soon, Tanya! Mandy, no clue about the sensitive nipples..lol Andi, even on my phone, I think I see something! Ashe, and Amanda I hope you are doing good! Jenn, Cam is getting so big! He is absolutely adorable!

I mainly just played my games at naptime today, kept me from thinkung about the a.m.

I want good news, and yes cramping eased up.. Hope to have good news for ever3one tomorrow...lots of love and hugs!!!
 
My mom had been diagnosed with a narrow pelvis and she labored with my brother but it ended in a csection because he could not get into the birth canal and he was only 7 something. So it wouldn't surprise me if my pelvis is narrow too. But my mom is more petite than i am so i would hope to be able to deliver a bigger baby than she was able to. Either way I'm not too worried about that part of it.
Im just impatient to have her here - healthy.
 
Tanya, hopefully Emma will come soon on her own without a need for c-section....I think it really depends on the person/what number the child is you've had. My first weighed 7.14 oz and took a lot of pushing with a medium amount of tearing, my second (also biggest) was 8.10 and a half oz...even though he was almost a pound bigger, he was by far easier than my first with only 15 minutes of pushing and minimal tearing and my last was 7.8 (he was also the only one who came 2 weeks early)My others right on time. He was also very easy with only a few short pushes. I hope it all goes well for you:hugs:Wishing you a quick, easy delivery:thumbup:
 

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