crusing4baby
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Hi All, I have been active members of other forums and often i have seen people start threads that are journals. I don't see any in here and im not sure if its because its not allowed... but i can't see why not. So I am going to start one. I find a journal just allows me to vent daily and it also gives me a chance to go back every once and while and see how far i've come. Feel free to jump in at anytime and offer feedback, support, opinions etc.
Here it goes... I'll start with a little about me.
My name is Sara. I live in Kitchener Ontario Canada. I am 25 years old, turning 26 in August. I got married on Aug 4 2007 and it was the best day of my life. My DH and I started dating when I was 17 and we got engaged when I was 22 and waited until I was almost 25 to finally walk down the aisle. We had lived with his parents until just 1 month ago when we purchased our first home. It is a perfect house for us and we settled quickly and are extremely happy. I am an accountant for Dominos Pizza and really love my job. My DH is a metal fabricator and hates his, lol.
We have booked a cruise for Dec 7 and we are going with my sister and her BF and my in laws. This will be our 2nd cruise and their first. I have had my clock ticking for about a year and half now. Its pretty much consumed me. My best friend and my DH best friend (who got married in May of 07) announced to us in march that they were 3 mths pg. Very happy for them and of course, very jealous. She is due on July 17th. So that got the ball rolling for me to bring up the subject with DH.
He said that before the cruise we could review our situation (ie. financial) and i could go off my bc. We both make good money but we are only 1 month into our home and things are a bit tight right now, when we are used to having a ton of excess, living with his parents. So that means we get t ttc in Dec of 08. The cruise is 163 very long days from now.
I read the posts from all you lovely ladies and how we all seem to feel the same excitment/dissapointment. Excited we get to ttc, but disappointed it isn't NOW!. I would really like to TTC now, but i don't want to be 5 months pregnant on the cruise. Heres why... its probably the last cruise we are taking for awhile... and we are planning to go scuba diving onthe reef, and ATVing through the mayan ruins. Not a good idea or even possible pregnant. So in my mind i know its the right thing to wait but my heart is dying.
so i have some goals for the next 163 days.
1. Weight loss - 23 lbs. My current weight is 163 and i would like to be down to 140. For many reasons, my health, my bikini on the cruise, and because being overweight lowers fertility.
2. Cut out Coffee - I love my coffee! but i can't drink it pregnant and so why not just cut back now. My plan is to substitute green tea for coffee for now, as im not pregnant so i can continue to consume a safe amount of caffeine. then i will slowly sub peppermint tea for the green tea. I am on day 4 of no coffee, drinking about 5 cups of green tea a day (@ 35mg of caffeine per cup thats 175mg of caffeine - less than 2 large Tim Hortons).
3. Paint the babies room - I know some of you might consider this a bad idea but i am a pretty creative person and plan on painting some baby winnie the pooh murals on the walls. I cant paint pregnant, so i want to do it soon.
So today i started out by eating a good breakfast (bowl of fiber one with 1% milk and 1 cup of milk with one scoop of vanilla protein) and 1 cup of green tea. My weigh in days are going to be thursday evenings. So i'll update next thursday.
Feeling pretty good today a little tired, but its friday of the long weekend. So i am painting a hallway of my house this weekend and cleaning and relaxing and gardening.
This was probably the longest post this journal will ever see, but you never know when i need to vent! Thanks for listening, and sharing and maybe even joining me on my journey.
Here it goes... I'll start with a little about me.
My name is Sara. I live in Kitchener Ontario Canada. I am 25 years old, turning 26 in August. I got married on Aug 4 2007 and it was the best day of my life. My DH and I started dating when I was 17 and we got engaged when I was 22 and waited until I was almost 25 to finally walk down the aisle. We had lived with his parents until just 1 month ago when we purchased our first home. It is a perfect house for us and we settled quickly and are extremely happy. I am an accountant for Dominos Pizza and really love my job. My DH is a metal fabricator and hates his, lol.
We have booked a cruise for Dec 7 and we are going with my sister and her BF and my in laws. This will be our 2nd cruise and their first. I have had my clock ticking for about a year and half now. Its pretty much consumed me. My best friend and my DH best friend (who got married in May of 07) announced to us in march that they were 3 mths pg. Very happy for them and of course, very jealous. She is due on July 17th. So that got the ball rolling for me to bring up the subject with DH.
He said that before the cruise we could review our situation (ie. financial) and i could go off my bc. We both make good money but we are only 1 month into our home and things are a bit tight right now, when we are used to having a ton of excess, living with his parents. So that means we get t ttc in Dec of 08. The cruise is 163 very long days from now.
I read the posts from all you lovely ladies and how we all seem to feel the same excitment/dissapointment. Excited we get to ttc, but disappointed it isn't NOW!. I would really like to TTC now, but i don't want to be 5 months pregnant on the cruise. Heres why... its probably the last cruise we are taking for awhile... and we are planning to go scuba diving onthe reef, and ATVing through the mayan ruins. Not a good idea or even possible pregnant. So in my mind i know its the right thing to wait but my heart is dying.
so i have some goals for the next 163 days.
1. Weight loss - 23 lbs. My current weight is 163 and i would like to be down to 140. For many reasons, my health, my bikini on the cruise, and because being overweight lowers fertility.
2. Cut out Coffee - I love my coffee! but i can't drink it pregnant and so why not just cut back now. My plan is to substitute green tea for coffee for now, as im not pregnant so i can continue to consume a safe amount of caffeine. then i will slowly sub peppermint tea for the green tea. I am on day 4 of no coffee, drinking about 5 cups of green tea a day (@ 35mg of caffeine per cup thats 175mg of caffeine - less than 2 large Tim Hortons).
3. Paint the babies room - I know some of you might consider this a bad idea but i am a pretty creative person and plan on painting some baby winnie the pooh murals on the walls. I cant paint pregnant, so i want to do it soon.
So today i started out by eating a good breakfast (bowl of fiber one with 1% milk and 1 cup of milk with one scoop of vanilla protein) and 1 cup of green tea. My weigh in days are going to be thursday evenings. So i'll update next thursday.
Feeling pretty good today a little tired, but its friday of the long weekend. So i am painting a hallway of my house this weekend and cleaning and relaxing and gardening.
This was probably the longest post this journal will ever see, but you never know when i need to vent! Thanks for listening, and sharing and maybe even joining me on my journey.