kiraelliott
Mum & due #2 :)
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...assuming everything is fine, we're hoping to let family know.. However it's only been two weeks since my sister had an mmc at her scan then had a d&c 2 day before christmas!
I'm a little concerned/nervous about telling her, because there's every chance this baby will be a constant reminder of the one she lost and that makes me sad :/ we're not very close and she's been putting on a front as it is since her op. Seems what should be a happy occassion suddenly feels like a guilty one before i've even had the scan! People on forums have suggested telling my sister first but for some reason i'm not comfortable with that. I've literally no idea how to tell her without it potentially hurting her. Any ideas? It's a tough one!
Xxx
I'm a little concerned/nervous about telling her, because there's every chance this baby will be a constant reminder of the one she lost and that makes me sad :/ we're not very close and she's been putting on a front as it is since her op. Seems what should be a happy occassion suddenly feels like a guilty one before i've even had the scan! People on forums have suggested telling my sister first but for some reason i'm not comfortable with that. I've literally no idea how to tell her without it potentially hurting her. Any ideas? It's a tough one!
Xxx