I have a scan on Thursday at 8w4d, I've been feeling optimistic and actually excited about it (especially as if everything is okay, we want to tell DH's parents then) but now I just feel scared. I've got bad lower backache and pain in my thighs and after all, my nausea has really dropped off today... So now I'm just plain scared that I'll go there and get the news that baby has stopped growing hate this worry. Time is dragging