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I am so very sorry for your loss. :hugs:

It's hard not to but but please do not blame yourself for this as it's highly unlikely that you were the cause. I can understand why you want to do it because it's a way of rationalising what's happened but I don't think it will do you any good in the long term.

Look after yourself and take all the time that you need to recover, rebuild and regroup physically and emotionally.

Lots love
xxxx
 
Thank you all.

Generally I would describe myself as a realistic type, emotional though. Perhaps I am trying to rationalise something that cannot be rationalised.

My sister (another one) suggested today that perhaps we should have a break trying for a baby after this miscarriage as we have gone through so much this year.

Perhaps we'll try again next autumn and have a little break over summer. The doctor said we could start trying again immediately. I have wanted to lose some weight for a while, although I don't know if this is the right reason to do it. At least at summer there are all the gorgeous berries etc healthy tasty things to eat.

About my feelings, both yesterday and today I have been irritated and bored. I cannot wait until Monday to be able to get over this and leave it behind. Then we'll have 3 babies on the other side :cry:
 
Oh Bilberry, I'm so sorry for your losses! I was hoping so much that things would improve. :hug:
 
:hugs::hugs::hugs:

Take care of yourself just now and take a couple of weeks until you make any decisions.
 
So so so very sorry for the loss of your twins! Take good care of you and we will see you back here when you are ready! Hugs and Love!
 

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