It's hard not to but but please do not blame yourself for this as it's highly unlikely that you were the cause. I can understand why you want to do it because it's a way of rationalising what's happened but I don't think it will do you any good in the long term.
Look after yourself and take all the time that you need to recover, rebuild and regroup physically and emotionally.
Generally I would describe myself as a realistic type, emotional though. Perhaps I am trying to rationalise something that cannot be rationalised.
My sister (another one) suggested today that perhaps we should have a break trying for a baby after this miscarriage as we have gone through so much this year.
Perhaps we'll try again next autumn and have a little break over summer. The doctor said we could start trying again immediately. I have wanted to lose some weight for a while, although I don't know if this is the right reason to do it. At least at summer there are all the gorgeous berries etc healthy tasty things to eat.
About my feelings, both yesterday and today I have been irritated and bored. I cannot wait until Monday to be able to get over this and leave it behind. Then we'll have 3 babies on the other side
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