Scared to come back

[bumski]

Well i dont know if there is anyone still around who will know me as iv been away for a while, i feel ashamed to come back and admit im still NOT pregnant.

This ttc has been sooooooo hard and i feel there is absolutely no one to talk to about it anymore, all my friends have since given birth and thats been hard, my mum (who i work with) is im sure sick of hearing me go on for nothing. and iv turned 30 last year (no offence at all to anyone 30+ at all) which has made me think iv got to get serious about this ttc if i want it to happen, time i grow up. iv now learnt that nobody will do it for me, just suppose i was always secretly hoping it would happen.

anyway sorry for babbling i would just like to meet some new people as im pretty sure most of my original friends who i used to ltttc with have already or are due to give birth so dont want to burden them with my ttc still as it must be a bit same old.

mmmmmm hope i come across in text as i mean to sound, sure some of you will understand me

 

[Bumblebeee]

Hello bumski, there's no need to be scared! Yes maybe your old friends have moved on but you can make new friends now I have been ttc for almost 3 years, so a short journey compared to some, with never so much as a sniff of a bfp I can completely understand your frustration, we all can. It takes over, doesn't it? I find myself flicking through the baby pages in the Argos catalog or wandering up the baby aisle in Boots wondering if it'll ever be me filling my basket with wet wipes and sudocrem!! I am considering changing doctors as I've not gotten very far with the one I have now, and maybe that will kick start the process and give us the baby we want so badly!!!

 

[Firefox]

Hey Bumski!!

I'm really so sorry that you haven't got lucky yet, its not fair at all You absolutely shouldn't be ashamed to come back its on here its absolutely the only place where peeps understand what you're going through & can hopefully help. I'm sure you'll make some fab new friends too. I don't really know what to say but I hope you and your family are well and that you've been in a good place with TTC xxx


I'm still around on bnb, suppose I shouldn't really be in this forum tho as don't really count as LTTC anymore but how random to find you I was just looking to see if anyone started a thread about TTC No#2 after conceiving no1 with OD (they haven't)!

I just started a thread in the TTC buddies section if you want to chat to an old friend in that one? xxx

 

[Armywife84]

I've been looming around here since last June, next month will mark our 2 years. Of course it's not as long as some on here. How long have you been trying?

I'd say just jump right back in like you've known us for ages. Everyone is more than welcoming!

 

[Amber3]

Hi there
Welcome back, no need to be ashamed here since we are all in the same boat. I have been ttc for 5 years and have not stopped trying. I also have started the adoption process. and am on the random waiting list which can easily be a wait for 3-5 years. But at least I will hopefully be a mum someday
Amber

 

[wannabemummyb]

Hi bumski. I've been trying 2 years, so bot as long as some, vut plenty long enough to see friends get pregnant and one have two babies in the time i've been trying!

I also turned 30 last year! The nurse at my doctors practise keeps telling me i am still young! Lol

My buddies on here keep getting preggers too

 

[wonderstars]

Welcome back! Please don't ever be ashamed to come back and not be pregnant. I've found incredible support here in such a short time that I understand why you've come back!

wannabe - I'm 31 and my gynecologist told me the same thing last week. I feel so old, though!

 

[wannabemummyb]

Yep me too wonderstar. I feel like i'm one of the older people TTC #1

 

[kazzab25]

Hi bumski we used chat on the od thread! I'm still not preggo currently on ivf #2!

Really nice to see you back Hun and good luck with your egg sharing!! Xxx

 

[CanadianMaple]

Don't be ashamed. Many of us have been through hell and back too and are here for you. We get it. Many people in our lives outside of BnB may not get it nor totally understand. I find it helps so much to have the girls here to help through those rough days.