hiya, i'm in the same situation, i'm 13+5 and really struggling to stop smoking, i used to smoke 20 a day and have managed to cut down to between 5 -10 a day dependant on whether i am at work or not. I went to see a smoking cessation nurse who told me that doctors do not like pregnant woemn using nrt however i am struggling so badly trying to quit that i'm gonna talk to her about it again.
I do really want to quit, my OH smokes as well, but he is not so enthusiastic about stopping!! i tried quitting by cold turkey and nearly ended up killing my OH!!!
I know how bad it is for my baby to still be smoking and the more pregnant i get, the more the smell of fags on my clothes makes me feel sick, hopefully through using the inhalator (i dont want to use patches and the chewing gum makes me feel sick) and the fact that i think my baby is starting to really dislike the smell, i can quit and stay quit.
Am thinking about the alan carr book as everyone seems to be rating it.
Fingers crossed and good luck everyone