ktm_x
Ellie's Mummy x
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Hi everyone, just really need to talk as things have come to a head. Im nearly 27 weeks pregnant and for the last 6 weeks I have felt awful towards my OH. I have been non stop picking fights with him (this all began over a party he got invited to and I never, so I went mad) Usually after an arguement things would be ok but this time we have never fully returned to normal. I have been picking fights with him constantly.
I went through a bad spell at work in the last month too and I felt totally stressed out. I started taking panic attacks and these got worse when me and OH argued. The last couple of weeks my head has been a complete mess, I cannot think straight I am doubting my love for my OH, our relationship, our past and our future. I have this really weird feeling towards him. When I am with him I am fine but the minute he is not there I feel weird and pick a fight. I finish our relationship at the drop of a hat because this makes me feel better (for around 5 minutes) then the next I'm craving him to just come and hug me. When I try and think out what is really going on, I can't. I can't think straight.
I sat and stared at myself in the mirror yday for ages and I asked myself what the hell was going on and I truly couldn't answer. Before this pregnancy and even during most of it I was happy and content in my relationship, now I am completely pickled. Me and my OH's best friend have never got on, I used to be able to let this go, now I can't and have to argue about it all the time. I can't let anything go.
He is a truly amazing guy, he puts up with loads, loves me to bits and respects me. I feel so guilty that I feel empty towards him atm, and that I am questioning did I ever love him. I don't know what the hell is going on with me. I don't know whether I should end it for good, or what? It was my 21st bday last w/e and Valentines day. He spoiled me rotten and I felt like I never even appreciated it which I feel awful for. I am fine with friends and family, they are not receiving this behaviour from me. Why is my poor OH? I feel like my head could explode, I want to scream, I can hardly even cry about this but things such as tv progs etc have me howling.
I am up and down, happy one min then sad the next. This niggly feeling only is present towards OH I am fine with friends and family although I do have the odd rage at them. It's like I can be happy all day then that feeling creeps up as if to say I'm still here...as crazy as that sounds.
I have a history of anxiety and depression and I went through the whole questioning my relationship/do I love him etc with my last bf, who was admittedly abusive, possessive and violent but my current OH is the complete opposite. He does not deserve this but I really don't know what the hell is going on. I can't go on like this. I want my old happy relationship back.
I went through a bad spell at work in the last month too and I felt totally stressed out. I started taking panic attacks and these got worse when me and OH argued. The last couple of weeks my head has been a complete mess, I cannot think straight I am doubting my love for my OH, our relationship, our past and our future. I have this really weird feeling towards him. When I am with him I am fine but the minute he is not there I feel weird and pick a fight. I finish our relationship at the drop of a hat because this makes me feel better (for around 5 minutes) then the next I'm craving him to just come and hug me. When I try and think out what is really going on, I can't. I can't think straight.
I sat and stared at myself in the mirror yday for ages and I asked myself what the hell was going on and I truly couldn't answer. Before this pregnancy and even during most of it I was happy and content in my relationship, now I am completely pickled. Me and my OH's best friend have never got on, I used to be able to let this go, now I can't and have to argue about it all the time. I can't let anything go.
He is a truly amazing guy, he puts up with loads, loves me to bits and respects me. I feel so guilty that I feel empty towards him atm, and that I am questioning did I ever love him. I don't know what the hell is going on with me. I don't know whether I should end it for good, or what? It was my 21st bday last w/e and Valentines day. He spoiled me rotten and I felt like I never even appreciated it which I feel awful for. I am fine with friends and family, they are not receiving this behaviour from me. Why is my poor OH? I feel like my head could explode, I want to scream, I can hardly even cry about this but things such as tv progs etc have me howling.
I am up and down, happy one min then sad the next. This niggly feeling only is present towards OH I am fine with friends and family although I do have the odd rage at them. It's like I can be happy all day then that feeling creeps up as if to say I'm still here...as crazy as that sounds.
I have a history of anxiety and depression and I went through the whole questioning my relationship/do I love him etc with my last bf, who was admittedly abusive, possessive and violent but my current OH is the complete opposite. He does not deserve this but I really don't know what the hell is going on. I can't go on like this. I want my old happy relationship back.