Yes, we saw our babies after the PM, but it was just 6 days after they died as the PMs were done very quickly. We asked the funeral director if they still looked 'ok', he said they did, so we went to see them. We didn't notice much difference other than their colour. We had given him clothes to dress them in, he dressed them and wrapped them in a blanket. We didn't see any marks etc but that's probably because they were dressed and we deliberately didn't move anything.
Is it worth asking someone, maybe the funeral director, their thoughts? Or ask someone else to go and see him first?
I'm so sorry for your loss xx