Nah so we just turn up 7am, the two planned slots are 9am or 11am (midwife says she will try and get us the 9am so she can come in), obviously if emergencies come in then we get bumped back up the queue.
If it gets to afternoon and we are not done yet, it's up to me whether I go home or stay in - either way I can have my meals, take the meds again, try again the next day. I'd probs stay in, lot of effort to go home and back when I could just lie down and get fed
And as for visiting, so apparently here dads get a choice of 8am-2pm or 2pm-8pm. So day one he'll obviously be there for the birth and go home at 2pm, then day two he'll probably come 8am again, go home at 2, and come back in evening to collect us. But if looks like I'm staying in an extra day, he'll probs do the 2-8 slot instead.
Midwife also said if it's quiet they can bend the rules a bit, but I think I'd rather he was home with the toddler as much as possible. See what happens.
And could not be happier with midwife situation, so turns out both my wonderful midwives are on the ward that day and I'll have one or both of them in theatre and taking care of me and baby after. Which is amazing because the hospital ones are... well, I just don't like them
So yeah, providing all goes to plan and he doesn't come early, it's all coming up roses over here. Of course, you know what they say about the best laid plans...