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September Stars

Blob - my friend had a stillborn full term in Feb. I sent her a card with a long heartfelt message as she doesn't live near us. If she had of been closer or a closer friend of mine I would have got her something to keep mementoes in a nice handcrafted box. Sorry to hear she is having to go through this pain :hugs:
 
blob my friend just had a second miscariage i sent her flowers first and visited with wine second, such a bloody cruel thing to happen nig hugs to her x

Emzy when are you planning on telling your family your news?

Lady k that made me laugh did they come into the house?

Asher how did it go with the inlaws?

Louise sorry things are rubbish at the moment im sure it must be hard getting used to each other again, is wayne at work every day or does he have more time round the house i dont know how it works?

sorry to those ive missed x

Layla has a cold but isnt too grumpy with it , we went to town and she walked around most of the time on her own , i think i may need to invest in reins? Amelia sat in the buggy watching the world go by , we stopped for lunch in a pub and hse loved sitting in the hi chair people watching and eating chips :)

we watched another couple with small baby twins out the window they both had baby carriers and it took them 10 mins to get the babies out the car and strap them onto themselves they were 5mins and then repeated the whole process and drove off , surely it would heve been easier to just carry them? im not sure why im telling you all this? just made me laugh bless them x
 
Aw blob I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I was thinking maybe some nice sunny flowers and if she's a close friend maybe visit with some nice food or wine in a couple of weeks?

Genies I have already told my Mum and Sister. I have also told a couple of close friends that I see all the time. The rest of our family and friends we won't tell til after our 12 week scan.

I tell you what girls, I'm so bloody scared of something going wrong :( You'd have thought I'd be more chilled out this time around but I'm worse!! It seems like all of my friends have had an mc at some point and then I go in the first tri forum and scare myself half to death reading about mcs and that. Argh I hate first tri, I forgot how bloody scary it is!! I'm going to try and find our september stars thread from 1st tri and read it! x
 
aww do any of you remember cazza? She was with us in the first tri but had her 2nd mc. I've just come across her profile and she had a gorgeous baby boy this year :cloud9:
 
I remember her posting saying she was pregnant when we were all due last year.

GG - hope Laylas better soon. You can buy some real funky reins now adays

Pointless fact but I've just found the most gorgeous caffeine free tea..... Chai tea omg I'm in heaven . Since being pregnant I don't enjoy normal tea anymore but this is lush for those that like spiced cinnamon cardamom tea ummmmm

Asher - what's the situation nowadays with the sil moobag? Did she go back to your bil?
 
Just found some info on the creche/play area at the Trafford Centre https://www.traffordcentre.co.uk/visitorinformation/family-facilities/opening-times

Was thinking maybe we could meet at the food court, go to the play area so they can have a play for half an hour/an hour, then maybe get some lunch? What do you think? Which day of the week is best? Weekdays or weekends? Prob quieter during the week?
 
GG- I managed to get to the door before they bashed it down, it was that or one of them was going to try to get through the bedroom window, thank god i now wear PJ's..x

Jelly- i didnt join the group until 2nd tri either......are you feeling a bet jealous with everyone getting pregnant.. i bloody am !!!! I wonder how far i can go before work notice im pregnant !! x
 
Awww I remember her thats fab news!!

Emzy I felt like that too, like second time around you know EXACTLY what you would be losing. Its heartbreaking if anything went wrong first time but you look at your first and go how on earth could I have not had you etc :hugs: :hugs:

I was thinking I might get her a plant for the garden? Like a rose or something? She lives close just in the village she goes to baby group she has a 1 year old daughter too. I just feel sick for her :nope: Not sure she's close enough to go to her house but definitely to give her something.
 
I'm semi jealous...like I looked at my newborn pics of the girls this morning and it made me want a baby SO flipping much :dohh: but then again I like being skinny (ish) again for a while :blush: I have been pregnant of BF since Jan 2008 I think a break would do some good :rofl:
 
I think a plant sounds a lovely idea, I'm sure she would appreciate the thought. Our group of friends found it difficult to discuss or acknowledge with our friends loss which I found frustrating and saddened.
 
Hello all,

Blob, My friend lost her beautiful daughter at 36 weeks, she got herself (and if i had known i would have done) a footprint pendant like Fishy does and had her daughters name and date of birth on it. It is a long haul getting past something so hugely sad, I have still not been to see the baby's grave as I know my friend still sees it as her special private place to be close, she said she knew she was feeling better as she took her sister to see the grave and that was a huge step forward for her.
All you can do it be there, hold her hand and listen to her when she needs to talk:hugs:

Louise, I feel for you, it is so difficult having a dh away from you for so long and missing him so much, then being together I assume most of the time atm, when dh had to be at home all the time it took about 18 months for me to adjust to him being with me all the time, and tbh I am not entirely comfortable with it now. I find my dh very critical for someone who puts so little input in!! :hugs::kiss:

Congratulations to all the newly preggers ladies, I think i have individually said it but in case I have missed you! :hugs:

Genies, Lol on carrying the twins, I thing twins must be a huge shock even though you know its twins, I cant imagine how much hard work it is doing everything twice! And how expensive doubling the price of everything! :hugs:


We had the party today, It looked lovely with the balloons, pink and white table covers, etc. Food was good, my friend helped and there was plenty, the bouncy castle was a huge hit, and the kids played really nicely on it. I think everyone seemed to have a good time, Rosie loved it, she was pusshed round in a car they had there most of the time in her little princess dress! lol.
Personally I was a bit annoyed that people who said they would come didn't , I had a friend of my 8 yr olds who said she would bring both her daughters, and because 3 tends to be a crowd with the older girls I didn't invite my dd's other friend, so when this woman didn't show i was a bit annoyed tbh, I would have asked the other friend if i had known!
All in all it was a hit, and we are defintely hiring the same hall for Sophie's 4th birthday!
Will post pics asap, took loads of Rosie in her dress, with balloons all around her, got a few brilliant ones:thumbup:

Back soon to catch up better, think i will head off for bed as soon as i have changed a certain someones smelly bottom! :hugs::kiss:
 
BTP she has already asked for her website so she can get one made :cry: she was really really upset thinking she needed it done in 3d to get a pendant.
 
Awww blob ur poor friend...dont know the cost but how about Kara's fairy babies?! The rose is a lovely idea...i see a nice yellow one for some reason x

Jelly i joined in second tri too and felt the same way...we could have been bump buddies with our little 'James' bumps lol xx

Kara that me me really giggle x

btp thats so annoying!! I was really let down for James' baptism by my Dads side of the family and no-one turned up...not even my Dad!!!! x

Cant think straight as i have excruciating tummy pains i feel like im in labour again but this time round lol x
 
Blob how awful for your friend, I agree a Rose bush is a lovely idea x

I joined in 2nd tri too! I didn't have a bump buddy but becs was my text buddy for labour announcements!

I too feel very broody but not quite ready yet.. We're set on after Xmas and I have my head around it now.. Plus Wayne won't be going to afghan possibly till September 2013 unless he gets 'told' to go so looking good for having him here for babyhood! Kind of makes us want to try sooner aa he'll have longer with the baby but I have my heart set on lilia being at least 2 before no2 arrives!

Thanks ladies for your support with the rows etc. We've cleared the air a bit today, I told him that I was even thinking that if it's like this I don't want to carry on.. A lot of it is the fact that I'm not used to being home all day and he's expecting a lot of me, but he hates his job in intelligence at the moment and is doing extra time advising search stuff but no recognition even though he's most up to date on it as this lot haven't been out for 18 months and he's only been back 3!

Also found out that if he gets promoted to staff sergeant in march as we think will happen, we could be posted again therefore another move, argh, not helpful with getting a job to then possibly leave after 3 months! There is a slot here he could be offered but not necessarily! Could be gib barracks (camberley.. Near gg) or anywhere south east, or Germany! Not Cyprus unfortunately!!

Sorry I'm babbling on now! Jelly when would you like to meet? Friday? Or would you rather leave it another week to see how JJ is?
 
Btp that sounds like a fab party def want to see pics !

Louise glad things are a bit clearer , what a pain to moving though ! But yay to the south east part :)

Lbb your pains don't sound fun! Wonder what it is?

I just looked at some twin reins on a twin site you can strap the handles to a parent belt that leaves you hands free :) this is of course if Amelia decides to ever walk properly :)
 
For emzy! x

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I don't know when I joined :lol: I was around (obviously) but not sure I was part of anything till 2nd tri.
 

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