Huffing and puffing and silent treatment until you apologize and he forgives you? Total manipulation. I'd let him huff and puff for days without a single apology. Just sit back and watch, it could be pretty amusing. Seriously though, you shouldn't let him treat you like that!
I do notice my husband trying to NOT look more now. I'm pretty pasty pale and pregnant right now, and I have noticed that when some of the tan, fit girls walk by his eyes hit the ground as he tries not to check them out. Of course that makes me feel insecure, but he's done nothing wrong! There was even a fabulously fit chick in a store we were in on vacation, and she went into the dressing room to change and didn't even close the door! Everything was on display, I know hubby took a quick glance, but I couldn't blame him! I mean, I looked too! But I looked out of jealousy-I wanted to punch her toned little tummy!