Seriously? #facepalm

[Classic Girl]

sorry...I apologize for my blunt title. Some of y’all know me. I’m 45, had 7 losses and closed up shop. Can I just say I’ve had the month from hell being FORCED to resign from my 14 year career as a school counselor because I took on a highschool job shadow student that also is a FORMER STUDENT of mine and caught her on video stealing medication out of my purse. Yet I HAD to resign. It’s been one of the most heartbreaking things I’ve ever been through. I cleaned out my office yesterday, bawled with my faculty and administration and had a box of 300+ cards from students they had made during my completely unfair time on paid administrative leave. Tenure is dead. There is no protection if SBO wants you out.

So...I have a paycheck and health insurance till Dec. 31st and no job. Perfect time to just throw some more on me right?



So now I get to go thru this AGAIN on top of mourning the loss of my entire world as I know it.

 

[Classic Girl]

Oh and the clinical guard ones which is what clued me in in the first place

 

[FTale]

WOW WOW and WOW!!!

I have no idea how you are feeling right now but I'm sending you all the prayers, and rainbow baby dust I can muster. CONGRATS!!!! It IS going to get better!

 

[emma4g63]

Wow them tests have fabulous profession

Life such a b**** sometimes BUT I do like to think everything happens for a reason bad or good


Could be perfect timing for you ..
Obv not healthcare or job wise but things have a way of sorting themselves out

Congrats hun xxx

 

[Scout]

I'm so sorry about the loss of your job, and hope something better comes along. Those lines look good! I got pregnant 2 months before turning 46 and she is now 5, so it can happen. I'll be praying this one sticks for you!

 

[Classic Girl]

I'm so sorry about the loss of your job, and hope something better comes along. Those lines look good! I got pregnant 2 months before turning 46 and she is now 5, so it can happen. I'll be praying this one sticks for you!

And you, friend, are the happy stories that keep me going.

 

[Bella1185]

Wow! You must have quite the emotional rollercoaster going!!! Sorry to hear about your job - that’s a terrible situation all the way around. Only advice is that I’ve noticed those truly, really, one off, ridiculous, unjust, unfair and mind blowing situations usually end up sending you somewhere even better....or at the very least let you dodge an even worse bullet that could’ve been down the road. Even though it doesn’t feel like it now I’m certain that in some crazy way, it was meant to be.



And CONGRATULATIONS!!! Those lines just look SOOOOO good!!!!! Whew!!!

 

[tdog]

hunni wow that is some progression on them, so sorry you have been through hell things can only get better (so they say) congratulations sending loads of baby dust, sending you loads of hugs xx

 

[Wannabemum96]

Aw gosh Uve has a lot going on!! Congrats on ur lines tho, maybe this is the wee shining light through all this xxx

 

[robo123]

Wow fantastic lines, so sorry about your job how unfair! I’m sending positive vibes xxx

 

[Classic Girl]

I know there is a silver lining somewhere. I was burnt out and loaded with so many administrative duties that my true counseling time was so incredibly limited. I NEED to move forward and not sure I’d have done this otherwise so I must stay positive.

However...I must also stay guarded bc I’ve seen line progression, early dark lines, late dark lines, you name it. They’ve all ended in loss. Why WOULD it be fair to just add an additional loss at a time where I feel broken and angry. Haven’t been allowed to say goodbye to my kids and their letters are making me ugly cry. Certainly that wouldn’t be fair, right?

If anyone is just tuning into my saga and has a bunch of free time on their hands:
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/threads/classic-girl’s-line-thread-could-use-some-positivity.2452765/

 

[tdog]

I know there is a silver lining somewhere. I was burnt out and loaded with so many administrative duties that my true counseling time was so incredibly limited. I NEED to move forward and not sure I’d have done this otherwise so I must stay positive.

However...I must also stay guarded bc I’ve seen line progression, early dark lines, late dark lines, you name it. They’ve all ended in loss. Why WOULD it be fair to just add an additional loss at a time where I feel broken and angry. Haven’t been allowed to say goodbye to my kids and their letters are making me ugly cry. Certainly that wouldn’t be fair, right?

If anyone is just tuning into my saga and has a bunch of free time on their hands:
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/threads/classic-girl’s-line-thread-could-use-some-positivity.2452765/

I no you'll be on tender hooks now I really can't imagine what your going though, I was following that thread and I've been thinking of you ever since xx

 

[saveme]

Im so sorry about the loss of your job, I'm in the same situation, I lost my job in October except not paid, I just bought a home. I'm literally going through orientation at a new job now. And I got a positive test, just hang in there girlie grieve as much as you need to, try to relax a little bit. Try to stay as positive as possible- life is hard sometimes we just got to keep pushing forward. Just keep telling yourself it will get better! And congratulations, I hope this is the start of that silver lining! Keep your chin up.

 

[justonemore31]

Firstly I wanna say congrats, secondly I'm so sorry you lost your job. I'm also extremely sorry for your losses. NOTHING can ever make that better. I'm also a strong believer in everything happening for a reason and idk, maybe you being pregnant now requires a less stressful position in the work field and so God made it where you were forced out rather than you choosing to. You seem like a hard working woman and very dedicated to your job so I believe that you would have continued working and feeling very stressed and being pregnant and you would've had too much pressure on you and it might have became too much for you so God took it away, so to speak. We don't know why these things happen the way they do but just trust and believe there's a reason for it all. Try to enjoy your pregnancy. I am praying to God that everything will work out, you'll find work soon but nothing too strenuous, and that your baby thrives and you have a baby in 9 months time.

 

[Classic Girl]

You’re the 5th person (including myself) that’s said that!

 

[justonemore31]

You’re the 5th person (including myself) that’s said that!

More than likely because it's the truth it will all work out.

 

[Bevziibubble]

Congratulations!!

I'm so sorry you lost your job. That was so unfair

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Congratulations hun, sending lots of sticky baby dust to you xx

I'm sorry about your job, I'm a firm believer things happen for a reason

 

[Excalibur]

I'm so sorry to hear about your job

Congratulations on the pregnancy! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

 

[Classic Girl]

I dunno ladies. Today’s test looks lighter