Shocker!!!

[lemontree12]

That's an amazing point! When he says his life is ruined it's all his own fault. My daughter has made my life, she's amazing and I can't imagine my life without her, he choose to cut such an amazing journey out, to be honest I pity him, there will be one day he will regret this, and he will never get back these precious moments, she's nearly 4weeks and already changed an learning new things, these moments are all mine and the bond we have is amazing. She's brought me so much happiness and the hurt and pain that I felt just a month ago is gone. I'm truly glad this weirdo has decided to stay away because I wouldn't want my daughter to be around such a waste of a person and grow up with negative people around her, but what gets me I him using her when it suits to get free holidays, and he was on patienty leave when I was on registering her birth an he refused to go on the bc, so he's her dad when it suits him!

Already I feel like Iv the upper hand, the best revenge is to be happy, both me and my daughter are so happy, but after seeing him, he is miserable, angry and horrible! I feel like we have won

 

[Lemonflower]

You have won hunni! i'm glad you're happy - you deserve to be.
I still feel angry sometimes and cry (not alot - I had a bleep for the first time in weeks yesterday)
Just angry he regards us as a mistake and jealous him and his gf are "happy".
He doesn't deserve happiness!
Sorry just a mini rant there!

Also like you said it's very unlikely you'll meet a monster like him again!
This has prob made you so much stronger!!!

Dezireey - I can't believe fob made you read his journal and hadn't even mentioned you!!
I think he honestly has something wrong with him or he's just plan evil

 

[Dezireey]

there's something wrong with him alright. He's threatening to kill himself now. to be honest, I'm so sick of what he put me through that I feel like saying 'go on then, do it, you asshat' oh dear, he only has himself to blame cannot see that holding his own child would probably bring him out of depression and make him happier but no he's such a selfish person it's something that's negative to him not positive. I detest these FOB's, they are just the sorriest excuse for men I've ever seen!

 

[Ceejay123]

Just ignore him sweetie, let him feel low. he honestly deserves it. He's more than likely trying to get a rise out of you, don't go crawling. x