Hi ladies, I'm 32 weeks preg and working through my list of things to buy for my first baby. I'm getting lots of mixed opinions from friends and family about whether a feeding pillow is useful/necessary. Some swear by their feeding pillow, others just use any old pillow/cushion. Thoughts? Also, can't decide if I should buy a pump before the baby is born. I'm not planning on going back to work for a while so I'm guessing I shouldn't bother buying one til I know whether I'll be expressing?? Thanks for any advice!