I don't know if I should even be chiming in on this, but I did have a similar scenario with this...I got pregnant in August 2009 and didn't know it until Sept 9...we lost the baby on Sept 17 @ 6w1d. I was gutted! I wanted to be a mommy so bad for quite some time and even though at that point the baby wasn't planned, it just seemed meant to be...so I suffered very hard. Found out around the 2nd week of October that my brother's wife was pregnant with her 2nd...8 weeks. I was DEVASTATED! I knew that I had to be supportive for my brother, so my hubby and me went with them to my dad and step mom's house to announce the pregnancy. Keep in mind, my dad knew I lost our baby as I told him within days of our loss. We're there for about 2 hours and my nephew is running around in this t-shirt that says "I'm gonna be a big brother!" and my dad and stepmom never see it. About another hour later, my brother finally stops him from running around and tells my parents to read Aiden's shirt. They instantly were hugging them and telling them how happy they were and that they just knew how happy they must be, etc. All the while my hubby and I are sitting at the end of the table just dying. I finally couldn't take it after about 30 minutes of them praising my sister in law, I lied and said I had to be at work that night (I was working full time midnights at the time). We barely got goodbyes that night, and my hubby and I made it to the truck and I lost it! I drove just out of sight to where my parents wouldn't have seen my truck stop and just sobbed! Of course I was happy for my brother, but I was just so tore up that I had just lost our baby and it seemed like none of them cared. My heart was breaking! I truly believe that was one of the worst heart aches I have ever had! But I managed to become at peace with everything. Slowly but I did, and low and behold the week of Thanksgiving my hubby and I found out we were 5 weeks pregnant! So now my sister in law is only 6-7 weeks ahead of me. So I know how you ladies feel. And I am over the moon about this baby, but I do know the pain, heartache, jealousy...all those emotions of wanting a baby and it not being the right time. All I can really say is that I hope each and every one of you is blessed with your own little baby when the time is right, and I hope its an easy process for you. Waiting is the worst part. Good luck ladies!