This week has been a nightmare! I have to do everything myself and im so fed up of it. Every morning i get me and lo ready, take lo to nursery and then go to uni or work. I come home have a quick tidy/prepare tea go get lo come homeand entertain him until bedtime. Then i do bedtime routine, come downstairs and make tea and then clear up whilst OH sits watching football or on his computer. More recently he has had some work to do but so do I and I never get it done because there is so much other stuff to do! OH had an injection on monday and was complaining mon and tues that he felt unwell so he helped even less with lo and asked me to sort the dog out aswel. Now he feels better and I am still doing the bloody dog coz I am working from home this week and he hasnt got time to take her out before he leaves at 7.45am. Hes managed it before but now it takes him an hour just to get himself ready!
Ive had enough!! Im on the verge of doing stuff all so he can see exactly what gets done without his help!
Ive had enough!! Im on the verge of doing stuff all so he can see exactly what gets done without his help!
You can't stand for this, it's no way acceptable! You need to really lay down the law until he realises that this isn't okay and starts pulling his weight. If this was my OH I'd be seriously considering telling him to sort himself out or get out.
You really do need to bring this up with him and tell him you need some help. You shouldn't have to do everything by yourself.
