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Tanara

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Acting like being pregnant makes me disabled or like im dying.

It was sweet at first how i would walk in a room of people and they would be like oh here sit down, do you want a drink blah blah. But seriously its just got anyoing, i know i should be grateful that people are all trying to weigh on me hand and foot, but im not the type of person who likes that.

anyways the reason behind my rant, saturday night we went to my OH's cousins house. When we got there i had 2 different people 2 different times ask if i wanted to sit down, i say no then my OH demands i sit down.. so i do, then i have 3 different people trying to get me something to eat and drink/ we sat outside while they played beersbee, the whole time i have people, can i get you a drink can i get you food do you need a sweater.

I may sound stupid, i just feel like a little kid when im with all the friends now adays.:shrug: I guess im upset more about the fact that noone asks hey how was your day, what have you been up to blah blah its all oh god shes pregnant we have to protect her from nothing lol.

I love that my OH babies me but i want to be treated like a normal person when were out, im not going to die cause i stand for 5 minutes lol. Im only 19w im scared for when im 30 some odd weeks :dohh:
 
all i can say on this subject is get used to it, i keep telling people that i'm pregnant not stupid n i can still do things for myself i don't need people to do everything for me.
 
I wish people would do this... I have to ask them if I can sit down and do you mind not lighting up cigarettes right next to me!? The they look at me like I think Im the fucking queen or something... :growlmad:
 
I know what you mean! But, sometimes it's nice to get babied.

My OH always thinks im hungry, like just starving, every time were at his parent's house he's like mom lets get Rachel some food she's hungry! & Im like no no I'm fine. I can eat when everyone else eats. Haha, so I know what you mean.
 
Oh my gosh hun it gets so much worse :(

I flipped out at my parents yesterday, seriously i only walked out of the bathroom & they were shouting 'are you ok'.:shrug:

I can't do anything without being asked if im ok or if i need help, im like im not ill, im pregnant!:haha:

The worst thing is, i cant imagine it getting any better when the babys here :( ahhhh lol:growlmad:
 
where we were people smoke in the house but luckly they have a smoking room cause his cousins fiance is pregnant to. I honestly dislike like it personally i feel like a child, i know everyones trying to be sweet but it makes me not want to go out anymore.

My OH asks me when he gets home from work everyday what i have ate that day, he like keeps tabs on how much i eat to make sure i eat enough. I laugh at how much he worries.

haha the OH;s parents when were their ill be sitting at the table and ill make a weird face and everyone sitting at the table is liek OMG ARE YOU OK!?! i swear i never understand what i do. lol
 
When you are 30+ weeks you will be thankful for the seat or any pampering lol, believe me. I know you dont feel very tired yet but I think its sweet that people are looking out for you, I think its in our nature to protect pregnant women, mothers, and children.
 
hehe i love it! :haha:
tbh tho not many people actually do fuss over me. My mum doesn't believe in "precious pregnant women" and she encourages me to work just as hard as everyone else and join in with everything everyone else is doing [sometimes i use pregnancy as an excuse to get out of things though :blush:] My dad just asked me if i wanted to go to the velodrome tomorrow for his birthday! I was like hello? I'm pregnant and you want me cycling round a sloped track at high speed?! I don't think so..xx
 
Haha, im like the first pregnant girl in the group. There was another girl in our group pregnant a while ago but she didnt come around much. And Alisha (Ohs cousins fiance) is only 2 months. Ive never ever been fussed over before, I feel so weird when people make a fuss. We go out on Wed for wing night, and we go to two different places and i swear all the regs know us and know were pregnant, i even get free drinks (since its a bar and i cant drink and they feel bad lol) which im not complaining about that at all. I just feel weird that im only 19w bairly showing and people are all over me like butter on toast lol.
 
I feel like a little kid too, lol, everyone offers me seats, asks if they can get me something to drink or eat, even the managers at work ask me if I need to sit down for awhile or if I need a break to get a drink or something, lol. On my bad days I feel like yelling. If I want to sit or have a drink I will let you know, lol.
 
Haha I used to love it!.
The only day I hated being pregnant though was my wedding day because I was so tired we only just managed to DTD. Everyone had to walk over to me rather than me to them :L
But yeah get used to it becuase it will only get worse as you get bigger :)
 
This annoys me to some extent too.

Its obvious I'm pregnant now and everyone I visit or see is like "do you want to sit down?" or "I bet you're hungry!" or "You mustn't do this/that/blah" etc. Like my friend asked me if I could eat yoghurt the other day, because it's "raw" apparently. I was like, it's yoghurt, how cooked can it get?! :dohh:

And my OH won't let me bend at all. If I bend over to pick something up he's like NOOOO I'LL DO IT. And although yes, I get pelvic pain when I move, I'm quite sure I'm allowed to bend over a few inches.
 
I sometimes like it, sometimes hate it.
My family can be the worse, thinking I can't do anything sometimes!

& OH is kind of the complete opposite, I wish he would fuss more :dohh:
 

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