well...lol there is so much tension about this topic at the moment on here no doubt youl get a lot replies with many differencing opinions..
i can can only tell you why i chose to put tommy onto solids at 4 months...*nearly put 14months then lol*
Tommy was draining his bottles, crying for more but bringing a lot back up as he couldnt take the amount of liquid he obviously wanted...
His feeds were then getting closer and closer together as he was being sick he was hungrier earlier...
He started to pay attention tous when we were eating and kept staring bless him...
He was eating his fists, sucking his sleeves and trying to devour his dummy but getting agitated when nothing came out...
He had had a growth spurt and is a good size IN MY OPINION 13lb 10oz at 14 weeks...he also started wanting a feed in the night even though i was waking him at 11 to try and get him to go through....
he was generally upset and unsettled....
I spoke to my doc and he said HIS WORDS "the 6 months is a guideline and recommendation in aiding a mother in her upbringing of her child, however its eaxctly that a guide and an aid, try him on some food if you think hes ready, if he takes it hes ready if not theres your answer,you do what you think is right as moms know best"
after this i decided to try him on baby rice but again after the doc told me to try it *it tasted like wallpaper paste..how i know that i dont no as ive never tried wall paper paste lol* i decided to try him on a bit of rusk mushed up and he loved it, hes a lot more settled now, takes more naps in the day, is generally a lot happier and goes 10 - 12 hours a night!!
its a really difficult question babe as all babies are different..these were the signs for me tommy was ready though so i hope it helps...
h x