Islabella
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Sorry rant ahead but need to get it off my chest!
Before Christmas (October) my husband and I lent his sister £500 which she promised to pay back by December last year... We're still waiting.
Cue last month - DH employs her fiancée for a few days to help them out and suggests he could take £20 off the wage he's paying him every day he works to go towards paying us back. He's still earning a good rate so shouldn't make too much difference. Mark agrees and says good idea - that SIL has had the money to pay us back but just won't stop shopping.
DH tells him we're expecting but asks him to keep it entirely to himself - we hadn't announced to anyone at this point as lost a twin and wanted a scan to make sure all was ok, think DH just needed to tell SOMEONE, and mark was there. mark agrees before he knows what DH was going to say.
He goes home and tells SIL that DH forced him to give up the £20 and that we're expecting another baby!!!
SIL calls DH and says we're scum and that we're not seeing a penny more of the money because we "stole" from them!!! DH tries to explain it was a mutual decision and we need the money back and she says she's washing her hands of us. Proceeds to call the rest of the family (DH's mother, father, brother, friends) and tells them we're having another child but puts a really negative twist on it.
I'm so upset, it wasn't her news to tell!!!!! She shouldn't have even known in the first place and I'm just as cross with Her fiancée for telling her after saying he wouldn't. He could have said, we don't have secrets I'd rather not know sorry.
She's also now saying that if we use the name Edward and call the baby Ted she's going to use that for her next child regardless (their grandfather is called ted but we've always said we'd love to use it and she's never shown an interest before!)
Sorry for how long that was... Just so upset about it all!
Before Christmas (October) my husband and I lent his sister £500 which she promised to pay back by December last year... We're still waiting.
Cue last month - DH employs her fiancée for a few days to help them out and suggests he could take £20 off the wage he's paying him every day he works to go towards paying us back. He's still earning a good rate so shouldn't make too much difference. Mark agrees and says good idea - that SIL has had the money to pay us back but just won't stop shopping.
DH tells him we're expecting but asks him to keep it entirely to himself - we hadn't announced to anyone at this point as lost a twin and wanted a scan to make sure all was ok, think DH just needed to tell SOMEONE, and mark was there. mark agrees before he knows what DH was going to say.
He goes home and tells SIL that DH forced him to give up the £20 and that we're expecting another baby!!!
SIL calls DH and says we're scum and that we're not seeing a penny more of the money because we "stole" from them!!! DH tries to explain it was a mutual decision and we need the money back and she says she's washing her hands of us. Proceeds to call the rest of the family (DH's mother, father, brother, friends) and tells them we're having another child but puts a really negative twist on it.
I'm so upset, it wasn't her news to tell!!!!! She shouldn't have even known in the first place and I'm just as cross with Her fiancée for telling her after saying he wouldn't. He could have said, we don't have secrets I'd rather not know sorry.
She's also now saying that if we use the name Edward and call the baby Ted she's going to use that for her next child regardless (their grandfather is called ted but we've always said we'd love to use it and she's never shown an interest before!)
Sorry for how long that was... Just so upset about it all!