Mum2BKW
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My sister sent me a pic the other day (attached) with the message "even if you have a boy, this is a MUST!"
At this point I must point out that, even if we have a girl, I think this is hideous (sorry if anyone out there loves it, but it's just FAR too pink and frilly for me).
I tried to be jokey and say how I didn't think hubbie's son would be too pleased to see pics of himself wearing that in X years time.... but by her replies it seems she was actually being quite serious! She started going on about how baby has no idea of gender stereotypes or sexuality and besides - "all it's going to do for months is eat sleep poop and cry, so the only fun to be had is dressing it up!"
This is her first niece/nephew and she wants to treat my baby like a doll. Because that's the only interesting thing about him. He might not understand that he's wearing an EXTREMELY girly outfit, but I do! In a similar way I wouldn't dress my daughter in a baby boys suit and waistcoat. There are so many cute clothes for either gender out there, and I'm not having a baby to make some sort of statement about gender equality.
I just can't believe she was serious - but more so that she thinks so little of my first child. She might not care for the first smiles, cuddles, gurgles etc but I'm beyond excited about all those little things that babies do when they're very small - even the pooping and crying! I hate the suggestion that that's all so 'boring' and tiny babies are only for dressing in stupid outfits.
Sorry for the rant, I guess I expected more from my sister.
At this point I must point out that, even if we have a girl, I think this is hideous (sorry if anyone out there loves it, but it's just FAR too pink and frilly for me).
I tried to be jokey and say how I didn't think hubbie's son would be too pleased to see pics of himself wearing that in X years time.... but by her replies it seems she was actually being quite serious! She started going on about how baby has no idea of gender stereotypes or sexuality and besides - "all it's going to do for months is eat sleep poop and cry, so the only fun to be had is dressing it up!"
This is her first niece/nephew and she wants to treat my baby like a doll. Because that's the only interesting thing about him. He might not understand that he's wearing an EXTREMELY girly outfit, but I do! In a similar way I wouldn't dress my daughter in a baby boys suit and waistcoat. There are so many cute clothes for either gender out there, and I'm not having a baby to make some sort of statement about gender equality.
I just can't believe she was serious - but more so that she thinks so little of my first child. She might not care for the first smiles, cuddles, gurgles etc but I'm beyond excited about all those little things that babies do when they're very small - even the pooping and crying! I hate the suggestion that that's all so 'boring' and tiny babies are only for dressing in stupid outfits.
Sorry for the rant, I guess I expected more from my sister.