I totally know what you mean. This was the hardest thing for me, choosing a stroller.
I got a “Travel System”. It has a stroller than can be used up to 50 lbs, with the child facing away from mom. It also came with an infant carseat, which clicks into the stroller facing TOWARDS mom; and a carseat base. So you put the base in the car and it stays there, and you can transfer baby to and from car and stroller without taking her out of the carseat. So you use the carseat in the stroller while she is a little baby and when she gets to be a bit older just use the stroller (So we’ll have to buy a new carseat eventually).
I didn’t end up getting one that converts to a two-seater (but that’s a good option if you are planning a 2nd baby quick after first). I figure if I need to trade up I will do so when we cross that bridge.
Also, an adjustable handle bar (DH is a tall guy) and a mommy cupholder for my coffee were important factors for me.
Good luck… I’m sure there will be something I regret about my stroller but eventually I just had to bite the bullet and buy one! This is the one we got: https://www.amazon.com/Maxi-Cosi-Leila-Travel-System-Reef/dp/B0057UFOKY