Christinee
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You are far from selfish.
Studies show that labour progresses better in dim, quiet rooms where mother feels safe and calm. Knowing a room full of people are there can make you feel stressed and anxious which is the opposite of what you want/need in labour.
Also, you need the time to recover and bond with baby. Its not fair on the baby to be passed around like a game of pass the parcel moments after birth. Baby should be with YOU. I read a post the other day about babies first 60 minutes after birth and how they are so alert, with eyes open wide, looking at mum. They are also learning your smell and its overwhelming for them to be passed around. Its the beginning of bonding and very important for you both.
Sorry for the long post, I'm very passionate about supporting mums during labour, I am training to be a doula when my babies are all a bit bigger.
Exactly, and just the thought of them in the waiting room waiting stresses me out. So I can imagine it would bother me when it really does happen.
I am going to go for a long walk tonight..... In hopes I can go into labor a little early. As of now, if I don't go into labor by March 9th naturally I'll be having a c-section on that day. So I am hoping I go into labor before that on my own.