SO irritated! Just need to rant.

[thecurlymama]

So, if any of you have read any of my other posts complaining about my OH- you know that he's bad at answering phone calls, coming over when I ask, etc... Well, for the past couple of months he's gotten A LOT better- and I mean A LOT. I have been so thankful and grateful and feel like I have thoroughly expressed to him that what he was doing was exactly what I needed to keep me sane and happy for the last month or two of the pregnancy.

WELL- today he didn't answer any of my fucking texts (invited him to dinner at my house, asked him to come spend the night, told him that I'd like to hear from him when he was off work, etc...) and each text was at least an hour apart. Did he text back!? NOPE! Not even an "I'm off work but busy, I'll give you a call later." NOTHING. It was all fine and dandy even though I was a bit irked I wasn't letting myself get too worked up- but then I call him. He's skating with D (his best friend who's 22 with zero life or ambition or anything- ugh. Nice guy who I actually like, but UGH.) He says that they're gonna be done skating soon and that he's gonna give me a call in a little bit. OK- finally! Yes! .. Well, 30 minutes go by. Then 40. 50 minutes go by. I'm upset. I text him after it's been an hour and he texts back 25 minutes later that he's sorry he didn't get back to me but he's not coming over, that he's spending time with D (UGH!) for today and he's not coming over til the morning. (We have a full day of shopping and an appointment with the midwives tomorrow, and he's always late- especially when it comes to the morning!!) Not to mention there are going to be workers doing stuff on my house with toxic stuff that I don't want to be around while preggo so I want to be out of the house by a certain time.

I guess what I'm saying is after a good run of him actually being attentive to answering his phone, being on time, etc... he just really fucking pissed me off! Maybe it's the fact that I'm 8 months pregnant and getting really tired of it so I'm a real grump- but even if it is that I really wish he wouldn't do that sort of thing!! It's just so irritating because a simple text would have prevented my irritation.

Grr OH I want to punch you !!

 

[jesssika]

Freakin men! They just don't understand anything at all do they haha ! I don't really have much advice but and stay calm and destressed, try not to let him bother you too much! x

 

[thecurlymama]

After a few angry texts from me telling him not to call me tonight or anything because I'm turning my phone off (I didn't turn it off). I expected him not to call because I'm ALWAYS the one to call to say goodnight, plus I told him not to even though of course I wanted him to call.

So yeah, he called and said goodnight and that he loved me, and that he was sitting with D listening to music. BUT, that irritated me TOO because D had JUST commented on my facebook status which stated that I was calling it a night and hitting the sack. D commented : Me too! killed myself skating today but it was fun." UM, does sitting in my boyfriend's room that I just helped him remodel listening to music and doing whatever else it is you freaks do count as hitting the sack? I don't think so!

Wow, the more I type the more crazy I feel (and sound)

So goodnight haha

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Sorry he's pissed you off love

 

[torsie93]

I know exactly how you feel. My OH annoys me so much sometimes that I was to scream! I usually find ranting to my mother or my sister helps calm me down a bit. Hope it sorts itself out!xx

 

[TwilightAgain]

I'm sorry he's being an ass, theres no excuse for ignorance and messing you around

I'd be having firm words with him.

Enjoy your shopping though!

 

[justhoping]

if his friend was hitting the sack......my question is then who is you oh hanging out with..
not to start you up...but that would have me seriously questioning my OH...:/

 

[thecurlymama]

if his friend was hitting the sack......my question is then who is you oh hanging out with..
not to start you up...but that would have me seriously questioning my OH...:/

He was with his friend haha. My OH would be the last one to lie to me about who he's hanging out with. I face-timed with the both of them shortly after that post- it just pissed me off that his friend said he was also passing out when he was actually hanging out with my OH lol.

Boys, Psh!!