Well, some of you may remember that bubba had cut down her feeds to just pre bedtime and then one at about 6am. These last 5 days she's had a stinker of a cold and as such has found it difficult to latch and breathe at the same time so hasn't been having big feeds. The pre bedtime one also went down to just a few sucks. These last two evenings she hasn't wanted my milk at all and won't even try to latch on. I still have milk left, but it's just not being eaten. My right boob was really deflated anyway with the lack of daytime feeds as she's always prefered the left anyway. Last night was awfuk and she kept on waking up with a cuddle generally being enough to settle her. Then early morning she woke up and wouldn't take the boob so I gave her some formula from a carton which she glugged down. She then settled fine. She's now nearly 14 months, so I'm beginning to believe that perhaps I should just give up trying to breast feed as certainly at the moment it seems to be distressing her. I just feel rotten as you read in so many places that 18 months is normal for self weaning, not now.