Melisa1985
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So I went to a baby shower today & few people commented on my belly being huge & how my baby is huge...First of all my baby is normal size & just because my belly is big or what I consider normal size to this point, few people commenting about my belly being big made me feel like CRAP!! I came home in tears seriously. I'm due in 4-5 weeks & these insensitive comments about my belly being huge or me looking huge are so insensitive that they are making me feel like breaking down. I came home and broke down in tears, I can't take peoples comments anymore about my weight gain or about my belly. For gods sakes just because my belly is big doesn't mean I have a huge baby & everyones body is different. Do people really expect me to be tiny at this point?
Than the other pregnant woman at the baby shower is only 27 weeks & comparing herself to me she said "oh i feel so tiny compared to you"...oh geez at 27 weeks i was smaller too!! I'm not a huge woman, I'm started off 130 lbs and I'm 163 right now, and 5'5. I don't understand why people put you down so much & just make you feel like shit during the toughest weeks of your pregnancy. It's not like i can control how big my belly looks, it just would be nicer if people would say my belly looks nice instead of commenting on how huge it is. They make me feel so fat that I just wish I can lock myself in the house right now & not see any other person at all until I have given birth. Few other people made a comment how they don't think I'll make it to my due date because I'm already so big, so I'll probably just go early. Can you even tell by that if i'll make it to my due date?? urgh
I just want to cry, this is not fair, I deal with enough crap, aches and pains and I don't understand why do people gotta destroy the little self-esteem that I got left. Calling a pregnant huge or big is NOT okay, why don't people get that???
Than the other pregnant woman at the baby shower is only 27 weeks & comparing herself to me she said "oh i feel so tiny compared to you"...oh geez at 27 weeks i was smaller too!! I'm not a huge woman, I'm started off 130 lbs and I'm 163 right now, and 5'5. I don't understand why people put you down so much & just make you feel like shit during the toughest weeks of your pregnancy. It's not like i can control how big my belly looks, it just would be nicer if people would say my belly looks nice instead of commenting on how huge it is. They make me feel so fat that I just wish I can lock myself in the house right now & not see any other person at all until I have given birth. Few other people made a comment how they don't think I'll make it to my due date because I'm already so big, so I'll probably just go early. Can you even tell by that if i'll make it to my due date?? urgh
I just want to cry, this is not fair, I deal with enough crap, aches and pains and I don't understand why do people gotta destroy the little self-esteem that I got left. Calling a pregnant huge or big is NOT okay, why don't people get that???