So upset by OH, probably out this month now!!

[Angelface]

after losing our bAby in dec my oh and I decided to ttc straight away,I made sure it was what he wanted too, as the baby we lost wasn't planned! He assured me it was. So we dtd practically every night but the 3 important nights... Nothing! He knows I'm ovulating. I feel like he's doing it in purpose to upset me.I know we haven't done enough this month... I'm so angry with him!

Sorry about Moaning. He doesn't seem to understand

 

[bbhopes]

He is probably afraid it will happen again, give him time, and assure him. Sometimes not letting them know when the right time to BD is also helps as they don't feel so much under pressure.

 

[Flowerbaby]

hi hunny, sorry to hear of your loss, i have just had 2 m/c's in past few months and we decided to wait 2 cycles before trying again, which is now!! We bd once on sunday and i think i ov'd yesterday so we dont stand much of a chance, he seems to know when i am ov'ing and stays away from me! He told me last night that he now wants to wait until we see specialist on monday (recurrent mc, im 35) to see what he has to say as he is scared i will mc again, which is fair enough but Talk about getting my hopes up then dropping me like lead, why he didnt just tell me that to start with i dont know, blooming men keep it all inside dont they!! i would just give your hubby sometime he will come round. i am sure they can tell when we ov'ing though, strange isnt it!!!

 

[Eternal]

I think they feel a lot of pressure usually but after something like this its even more so. I found sometimes the night we needed to dtd were the nights we argued, lol, and it wanst just him, i think i felt just as much pressure too.

for me right now we are just going to go with the flow and not try to get too obssessed this first few months, because each time (twice) ive got pregnant its been the month we havent been actively trying.

Try talking to him, hope you still get your bfp xxx

 

[sarah55]

Hey, just wanted to say sorry for how you are feeling. I have to say, having just had what I think is my first positive opk, my OH found the essential nights rather difficult and it seemed to be a job rather than something we should enjoy. I've decided ( if not successful this time) I'm not going to say which nights I am ovulating, as it only makes the pressure worse for the poor man

Sx