So upset, did I just miscarry?

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by October15, Oct 5, 2013.

  1. October15

    October15 New Member

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    If this will upset you in anyway, please don't read. I would have only been 3 weeks along. never got a positive test.

    Last ngiht around 2:30am i had a slight sharp pain shoot up me..I supposedly have/had my period so i just went to the bathroom. sorry for the oncoming TMI. when i wiped there was a fairly long ( size of palm) and very dark blood clot..i thought it was strange b/c this period was lighter then normal. but then i went t wipe a second time and out popped with no pain, a small round light grey/off white ball/sac like substance. it was hard and rubbery...also about the size of a penny. on the outside of it seemed to be a kind of red membrane or veins with a dark almost black patch at the top. i tried to wipe it away thinking it was blood but it was latched onto it. i freaked out and started crying. it was very smooth and cloudy, kinda round with a small tail or tear like point at the end. My husband and I have been trying for a baby on and off for the past couple months, is this really a miscarriage? I had no pain until it was passed and now have been cramping ever since with brown blood. (before this is was red) im very scared and have a gyno apt for tuesday morning to get checked out! could this be something else like a fibroid tumor or cyst?? any info so very very much appreciated right now..
     
  2. calvinzoey

    calvinzoey Well-Known Member

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    It sounds like a miscarriage to me!!!! :hugs: I'm very sorry for your (potential) loss!! On the bright side (which is hard to see, I know), if it was going to happen, it's better early that later! I had mine at 11 1/2 weeks - so I got pretty comfortable being pregnant... and it's delayed when I can get pregnant again.

    From what I have read, what you just went through is pretty common. I feel bad for you, though.. most people don't realize they were pregnant then! And I think you were. SO again :hugs: :hug: I hope you have better luck in the future and I hope we all get our sticky BFP's!
     
  3. October15

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    Really thank you so much for your reply. Its killing me having to wait to go to the Dr. on Tuesday. i posted on other sites with no feedback at all, so this is very appreciated! I am grateful we didn't know about the pregnancy ahead of time feeling it would be much harder. But still, just knowing I was when we both want it so bad and have been trying everything...it stings and I feel a little empty over this. i hope you and your spouse are lucky soon! I am very sorry for your loss as well and will say a prayer for you. -Baby dust on us both for next time-
     
  4. LifeAfterDepo

    LifeAfterDepo Well-Known Member

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    OMG girl. I wanted to cry reading that!

    I am so sorry you had to go through that.

    So your appointment is tomorrow? Is this your first ob visit for this pregnancy?
     

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