kirstybumx3
Mum to two boys, R&N
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I hate to moan about OH, because I love him dearly and he really doesn't get the acknowledgement he deserves for the things he does for me.
but today he has really hurt me!
so to cut the story short, he had a new phone and in the phone shop was given a piece of paper with a code on, which he was to take back to store with his old phone after wiping the contents, to get a cash trade in.
we were going to return the phone this morning before he had to leave for work, but when he went into the bag with his new phone contract agreement, the piece of paper wasn't there.
this was suddenly MY fault and I had moved it. (I haven't even seen the piece of paper, haven't touched the bag with the documents in!)
he started throwing everything around trying to find this piece of paper. emptied the wardrobe of his clothes to check pockets, threw my ironing across the room to check underneath it, threw the cushions off the sofa to check underneath them, trashed the kitchen and all of the storage drawers...
whilst shouting at me the whole time that he is sick of me moving things and I should leave things alone (I honestly haven't touched it!), then in the next breath telling me I live like a scruff and I need to start doing things instead of sitting on my ass while he is at work.... ( I don't know why he said this, the house is not a mess at all, there is a pile of freshly ironed clothes in the lounge that needs to be put away, thats all)
the whole time im sat on the floor sobbing trying to explain that I haven't touched it and that I will try and look for it, but I don't know what im looking for because I haven't seen it.
in the end we took too long looking for it and he had to leave for work, before he left for work he told me how he is sick of the way I back chat (im not a child, I will say what I want to when I want to, if he has a go at me im not going to sit there and take it, even though I pretty much did!) and that he hopes im happy with myself, and if I don't find this piece of paper that I have moved then I will be giving him the money myself that he should have got for his phone, and when he comes back from work he expects the house tidied and the paper found as he KNOWS ill find it because ive moved it...
he then continued to call me a f**king tw*t as he slammed the door and left for work leaving me crying on the floor.....
I totally think he has been unreasonable today and I am really angry/upset with him!
what makes it worse is he is working quite far from home today, and has to travel over a hour each way on a busy motorway, and its scary enough for me when we are on good terms, but the thought of anything happening to him when he has left me without a kiss or a cuddle, or even saying bye, is breaking my heart and I just cant bring myself to calm down
im really sorry about moaning I just needed to let it out somewhere and I don't really want to be moaning to friends/family about OH for them to think hes a really bad person because honestly he isn't, I don't know whats wrong with him today!
but today he has really hurt me!
so to cut the story short, he had a new phone and in the phone shop was given a piece of paper with a code on, which he was to take back to store with his old phone after wiping the contents, to get a cash trade in.
we were going to return the phone this morning before he had to leave for work, but when he went into the bag with his new phone contract agreement, the piece of paper wasn't there.
this was suddenly MY fault and I had moved it. (I haven't even seen the piece of paper, haven't touched the bag with the documents in!)
he started throwing everything around trying to find this piece of paper. emptied the wardrobe of his clothes to check pockets, threw my ironing across the room to check underneath it, threw the cushions off the sofa to check underneath them, trashed the kitchen and all of the storage drawers...
whilst shouting at me the whole time that he is sick of me moving things and I should leave things alone (I honestly haven't touched it!), then in the next breath telling me I live like a scruff and I need to start doing things instead of sitting on my ass while he is at work.... ( I don't know why he said this, the house is not a mess at all, there is a pile of freshly ironed clothes in the lounge that needs to be put away, thats all)
the whole time im sat on the floor sobbing trying to explain that I haven't touched it and that I will try and look for it, but I don't know what im looking for because I haven't seen it.
in the end we took too long looking for it and he had to leave for work, before he left for work he told me how he is sick of the way I back chat (im not a child, I will say what I want to when I want to, if he has a go at me im not going to sit there and take it, even though I pretty much did!) and that he hopes im happy with myself, and if I don't find this piece of paper that I have moved then I will be giving him the money myself that he should have got for his phone, and when he comes back from work he expects the house tidied and the paper found as he KNOWS ill find it because ive moved it...
he then continued to call me a f**king tw*t as he slammed the door and left for work leaving me crying on the floor.....
I totally think he has been unreasonable today and I am really angry/upset with him!
what makes it worse is he is working quite far from home today, and has to travel over a hour each way on a busy motorway, and its scary enough for me when we are on good terms, but the thought of anything happening to him when he has left me without a kiss or a cuddle, or even saying bye, is breaking my heart and I just cant bring myself to calm down
im really sorry about moaning I just needed to let it out somewhere and I don't really want to be moaning to friends/family about OH for them to think hes a really bad person because honestly he isn't, I don't know whats wrong with him today!