... are quite stupid! A girl at work overheard me talking on the phone to DH about IVF and when i got off the phone she said... "are you sure you are having sex at the right time of the month?". My dad told my godmother at the weekend we were being referred to IVF and they both told me if we just 'relax' it will happen (yeah, that will magically make his count increase by 1000% - NOT!) One of my best mates came round yesterday with her baby and first off, asked me if i hated seeing babies ?? WTF and second told me that she was surprised i was being so positive about IVF working when it might not as her friend had 9 goes before success. Arrrrrgghhhh It has finally hit me that we have to have ICSI IVF and all of a sudden i really want to be a mum. I guess it's not helped by being in limbo waiting to hear back from the clinic, but i feel all lost and crappy today. Bum. I think i need a lie down in a quiet room with a cold compress over my eyes and a bar of chocolate in my hand Sorry for being a whinge bag!!