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[lillysmum26]

My little girl is 2 years 4 month and ive not used any contraceptive since she was born i mean me and my oh are lucky to have been having sex 4 5 times a month with never falling pregnant we have now decided we want to ttc so u you say ive been lttc? or just go with when we started this month we are now having sex every other day thanks x

 

[Myshelsong]

Personally I wouldn't consider you LTTTCer yet. Only after you have been actively trying withe timed intercource continuously for a month for over a year is my thoughts on the matter.
I strongly suggest starting to temp to make sure you are ovulating around the same time as last time and give it a few more months to see. You daughter is adorable by the way!

Good luck!

 

[lillysmum26]

Thank you for upur reply ill defo give tmping ago xxx

 

[tommyg]

Actually I wouldn't wait as long as a year before getting checked out esp if you are going to seek help on the NHS. I would have though sex weekly for 2 years should have hit the right time at some spot esp if you have regular cycles. Although breastfeeding can delay your cycles returning.
Although all areas will cover secondary infertility the wait for help can be months. Took me 11 months from referal to getting clomid.
So I'd give it 6 mths then ask for referal but if I was going private I'd maybe give it a year as the waiting time to treatment should be much quicker.