Hello, Ladies! Sorry to be away for almost a month. It is a long complicated story I won't bore you with. I'll just say that my DH and I have been moving completely back into my late Mother's home for now. We still have boxes stacked up to the ceiling and so much work to left to do. This has been where a lot of the stress I mentioned in my last post has been coming from.
This month, I started using the Instead Softcup. The very first day we tried using the Softcup, we
and then he slid it in for me. Next, for two days in a row, my hubby deposited his
directly into the cup. The first time, he just inserted it with just his
. The following day, I added some sperm friendly lubricant in with him before DH inserted the Softcup. For the rest of these days, we
and then hubby inserts the Softcup.
As far as I can tell, he does a great job inserting the cup because I can't feel a thing all day. I leave it in for 12 hours, and hubby removes it for me. It really suctions itself to me since my DH really has to pull to get it loose.
We always look at it when he pulls it out. I see what looks like my CM hanging from the side of the cup and some inside the cup. (It is clear and stretchy between my fingers.) Sometimes, I see what must be his seminal fluid in the cup. (It has a off whitish color to it and a couple of times, I haven't seen really anything in the cup.)
I've been using the Softcup for several days now. Going by the American Pregnancy.Org website ovualtion calendar, it says that I could be ovulating starting from October 22nd to November 1st if my cycle is 29 days. (My cycle is regular but it can vary between 28 to 32 days.)
I always have a little worry that we put the cup in wrong and created a barrier instead but one thing I've noticed seems to be a good sign to me. Remember how I've confided to you all that I seem to have so much still left in me when I wipe after using the bathroom, even hours later? (Sorry, TMI, again.
) Since the first day we've used the Softcups, when I go to wipe, there is nothing there except urine. My lubrication isn't even there when I wipe.