Starting a new

[Sandie_Cali]

Starting a new

 

[Mummy&bump]

aww hun thts bad he didnt even offer 2 cum give u hand never mind he should be concerned about ur daughter himself!

men can jus b so god damn self centred at times! stuff em ur right coz he will come out lookin bad

hope ur wee ones better soon

xxx

 

[Naya69]

men can be so inconsiderate he could of pop in to see if u needed help or needed anything i think his little girl is more important than some stupid bbq hope things get better for u hun xxx

 

[Aria]

Believe it or not, there are women out there like this too. My OH's brother's ex didn't care about their child until a boyfriend of hers wanted a son and she didn't want to get pregnant again. She picked the toddler up from preschool after not seeing him a couple years and kidnapped him to the other side of the country. She and the boyfriend broke up, and police tracked her down to a motel in Florida When they broke in, she was turning a trick (prostituting) WITH THE CHILD IN THE ROOM. The child hadn't been fed in a couple days.

A friend of mine had an ex who didn't are until her green card was about to expire. So she kidnapped the child . The poor kid now is with her half the time even though she abuses him. But because she's the mother, the court won't prosecute her because he hasn't been in danger of death. Just had his hand stabbed once, made to sleep in a corner without blankets, denied medical care (and tried suing the dad for getting the child medical care), hit him many times, etc..

When women don't care, it tends to come out in the form of abuse. For men, they usually back away. Also don't forget that women who aren't ready to be parents or don't want to be can abort and it's not seen as selfish, but rather a choice. Men who aren't ready or don't want to be parents are stuck and are called selfish assholes if they don't want to be parents and try to leave. Men can't back out. It's forced on them. If parenthood were forced on women, there's be an outcry.

Remember we have the right to not be parents. They don't. That right has been taken away from them. Blame can't be laid on them for this.

 

[PrettyBonk]

I'm sorry Aria but even thought I may agree with you a bit on this and I do understand your point...to some may come a bit harsh...specially when we do not know the story...

 

[PrettyBonk]

Why are there heartless men out there who dont give a ratz A** about other people but themselves.

I hate my sperm donor with a passion and more so as days go by. First he chose himself instead of us (our 2yr old, our unborn child and me). Next he wants to be in our lives, and now, my daughter is very ill 102.7 fever and usually seizes when she reaches 103. When he went home from work he did not even ask if I needed anything he passes right through my city, He did not volunteer to come see us to see how his daughter was doing, nothing, but went straight to a BBQ.

How fricken rude is he, I let him know that that was inconsiderate and was another reason why I did not want to live here anymore and wanted to be with my family, I told him go ahead and keep doing stuff like this, it will only make me look better and you more like a piece of sh*t.

Then he said, if you needed help you shouldve asked, I was like if you have a brain you wouldve known. A pregnant woman going into a colder than luke warm shower 3 to 4 times holding her daughter in her arms with her having a 102.7 fever. And not even asking me if I needed anything while passing through.

Well he said he would be here in a bit, and now all of a sudden a fireman is let go all of a sudden and things are missing so I guess he wont be here at all. I am so fricken tired of this.

Is ok to hate him girl....just care for baby the way you are doing it...it is his loss anyway...

 

[Sandie_Cali]

Believe it or not, there are women out there like this too. My OH's brother's ex didn't care about their child until a boyfriend of hers wanted a son and she didn't want to get pregnant again. She picked the toddler up from preschool after not seeing him a couple years and kidnapped him to the other side of the country. She and the boyfriend broke up, and police tracked her down to a motel in Florida When they broke in, she was turning a trick (prostituting) WITH THE CHILD IN THE ROOM. The child hadn't been fed in a couple days.

A friend of mine had an ex who didn't are until her green card was about to expire. So she kidnapped the child . The poor kid now is with her half the time even though she abuses him. But because she's the mother, the court won't prosecute her because he hasn't been in danger of death. Just had his hand stabbed once, made to sleep in a corner without blankets, denied medical care (and tried suing the dad for getting the child medical care), hit him many times, etc..

When women don't care, it tends to come out in the form of abuse. For men, they usually back away. Also don't forget that women who aren't ready to be parents or don't want to be can abort and it's not seen as selfish, but rather a choice. Men who aren't ready or don't want to be parents are stuck and are called selfish assholes if they don't want to be parents and try to leave. Men can't back out. It's forced on them. If parenthood were forced on women, there's be an outcry.

Remember we have the right to not be parents. They don't. That right has been taken away from them. Blame can't be laid on them for this.

Okay, interesting point, but I am not one of the above women, I actally love my daughter to no end and would go to the ends of the world for her.

But you do have a valid point it is put upon them, however they do have a choice and rights, they can sign away their rights as parents and get out of our lives for good. I for one have given him that option plenty of times, he wont do it.

Thank you.

 

[PrettyBonk]

believe it or not, there are women out there like this too. My oh's brother's ex didn't care about their child until a boyfriend of hers wanted a son and she didn't want to get pregnant again. She picked the toddler up from preschool after not seeing him a couple years and kidnapped him to the other side of the country. She and the boyfriend broke up, and police tracked her down to a motel in florida when they broke in, she was turning a trick (prostituting) with the child in the room. The child hadn't been fed in a couple days.

A friend of mine had an ex who didn't are until her green card was about to expire. So she kidnapped the child . The poor kid now is with her half the time even though she abuses him. But because she's the mother, the court won't prosecute her because he hasn't been in danger of death. Just had his hand stabbed once, made to sleep in a corner without blankets, denied medical care (and tried suing the dad for getting the child medical care), hit him many times, etc..

When women don't care, it tends to come out in the form of abuse. For men, they usually back away. Also don't forget that women who aren't ready to be parents or don't want to be can abort and it's not seen as selfish, but rather a choice. Men who aren't ready or don't want to be parents are stuck and are called selfish assholes if they don't want to be parents and try to leave. Men can't back out. It's forced on them. If parenthood were forced on women, there's be an outcry.

Remember we have the right to not be parents. They don't. That right has been taken away from them. Blame can't be laid on them for this.

okay, interesting point, but i am not one of the above women, i actally love my daughter to no end and would go to the ends of the world for her.

But you do have a valid point it is put upon them, however they do have a choice and rights, they can sign away their rights as parents and get out of our lives for good. I for one have given him that option plenty of times, he wont do it.

Thank you.

amen!!!

 

[tootsy1987]

Hunny i just saw this thread and noticed u have m/c!! im soooo sorry big huggs to you in this time, i had a mmc on 4th april also xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[bjshooter]

I dont know how men can just not care like that. I would be worried sick if i knew my daughter was ill. Maybe its a mother thing i dont know. I have had times when my daughters dad just didnt seem to care its sooooo annoying, mainly because i just dont understand it. I am pregnant to a different father i am not with atm and i must admit no matter how often he says he will support baby, i wont believe it until i see it, i know i shouldnt tar all men with the same brush and some will be brilliant fathers, but you just cant help it.

 

[shaunanicole]

I'm sorry that this is happening to you and your daughter. Men can be heartless monsters at times and it's a shame that they are capable of being so cruel and mean. I wish you and your little girl the very best of luck and I hope things get better soon.

 

[babystar]

what an ass