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I split from my husband in September last year and for a while things were amicable enough that we could arrange childcare between ourselves so that we could both continue working and not have to worry about the cost of childcare.
Things have taken a rocky turn in the last couple of months that have caused me to have to take a lot of time off and let work down last minute. The only option I have at the minute is to resign and get back into work when my youngest is at nursery, which is fine by me because consistentcy and structure are more important for my girls at this time.
I have nothing against people that stay at home with their children in fact I admire you all, but being someone whos worked since I left school Im struggling with the notion of not being out and doing something. Have any of you had to give up work and how did you find it? What do you do to keep yourself and LOs occupied. I suffer with depression and anxiety so Im just a bit worried that being home all the time will set them off and make them worse so Im just looking for ideas to keep myself going until I get used to not working.
Things have taken a rocky turn in the last couple of months that have caused me to have to take a lot of time off and let work down last minute. The only option I have at the minute is to resign and get back into work when my youngest is at nursery, which is fine by me because consistentcy and structure are more important for my girls at this time.
I have nothing against people that stay at home with their children in fact I admire you all, but being someone whos worked since I left school Im struggling with the notion of not being out and doing something. Have any of you had to give up work and how did you find it? What do you do to keep yourself and LOs occupied. I suffer with depression and anxiety so Im just a bit worried that being home all the time will set them off and make them worse so Im just looking for ideas to keep myself going until I get used to not working.