still have strength to try after 3 mc this yr

[want2bamum86]

hi me and my partner are still trying after losing 3 children this yr and twins in 2005 i dnt know where the strength is coming from i am scared tho any advice?

 

[ncmommy]

sorry for your losses!

Have you had any testing done?

I hope you get your sticky bean soon!

 

[want2bamum86]

yeah had all the tests in feb and got told everything is fine

 

[ncmommy]

yeah had all the tests in feb and got told everything is fine

That is me too, was told it was a string of bad luck

We are TTC this month for the first time since our last mc. I think it is normal to feel scared, I know I'm terrified. I wish I had some advice to share!

lots of to you!

 

[want2bamum86]

i wish u luck hun hope everything works xxxxx sending u lots of love x

 

[salb10]

sorry for your losses hun, i've also lost three this year

just got a letter through today for my appt with FS in january

Fingers crossed all is well and to all of us!

 

[Leeze]

Hi wantobeamum

Firstly, I'm really sorry for your losses

I think if you haven't had any tests done it would definitely be worth it. A friend of mine had 3 m/cs and firstly they couldn't find anything that might have been causing it but eventually they discovered she had fibroids. She had these removed and then went on to conceive a beautiful baby girl. She's now pregnant with her second child and is about 5 months along.

So don't give up hope

Fingers crossed for you xx

 

[Leeze]

sorry, I just saw you did say you've had some tests done! Do you know how much this covered? As I said, with my friend they initially said everything was ok and she was quite persistent to get more tests (also she's over 35 so was worried time was running out) - and in the end they sent her to a specialist unit for further tests.

Also - have you heard of an organisation called Foresight - they test your hair for mineral and vitamin deficiencies and claim that they help 75% of couples that have had trouble conceiving to go on to have full-term pregnancies. I haven't tried them myself but my friend recommended them too. She said it worked out about £200 in total for all the tablets they recommended but she thought this might have also helped.

I've been taking maca tablets myself to help with regulating hormones and so far these seem ok - not sure if they've helped yet with TTC as this is my first cycle since taking them

Good luck xx

 

[want2bamum86]

thanx hunni i will chat to docs if nuffin this time but i have a few symptoms atm so fingers crossed

 

[wannabe mam]

Sorry for your losses, just wanted to say you are amazing to keep your strength up through this, good luck xx

 

[LucyJ]

I am so sorry for your losses. Reading your post gives me strength I have just suffered my third loss this year and it is heartbraking my hubby and I have an appointment on the 1st Dec for further testing so cant try untill then but I am so scared that I am not strong enough to cope with trying again the thought of another loss just terrifies me my third loss is very recent so I'm sure in time I will find the strength. You give me hope and belief that I will find it.

 

[Pretty Please]

Hey,

I am sooo sorry for your loses it never does get any easier..

Do you believe you had ever test possible done?

I suffered from 5 MC with my husband and went private for testing purely because I could not bring myself to wait for the NHS and I was soooo upset I wanted answers - they did compatibility testing which wouldn't of been done on the NHS and that’s why they reckoned I was MC.

Maybe its worth trying to get a 2nd referral or going private or trying to go to a different hospital / Dr.

It must be soooo upsetting for you and I really hope that the next little been sticks for you. xxxx

 

[salb10]

Hey,

I am sooo sorry for your loses it never does get any easier..

Do you believe you had ever test possible done?

I suffered from 5 MC with my husband and went private for testing purely because I could not bring myself to wait for the NHS and I was soooo upset I wanted answers - they did compatibility testing which wouldn't of been done on the NHS and that’s why they reckoned I was MC.

Maybe its worth trying to get a 2nd referral or going private or trying to go to a different hospital / Dr.

It must be soooo upsetting for you and I really hope that the next little been sticks for you. xxxx

hi what is compatability testing?

 

[Pretty Please]

Its immune testing. Testing that can tell whether you and OH can match or whether you are likely to MC.

Some drs recommend it others dont like the idea.

If you have it done you get injected with your OH white blood cells into your body and you are less likely to MC (because you are carrying his white cells around in you)and then the egg and sperm are in harmony together rather than rejecting the baby because you are not compatible with your OH.

Hope I have explained it ok....

 

[salb10]

you did!

i've not heard about that before, so thats really interesting!

So is that what i have done with your current pregnancy then? How far along are u?

 

[Pretty Please]

11.5 weeks i think - so far so good scan on Thurs so we will see.

Hope you all get some good advice and help and reasons for your MC as they are the worst thing in the world and there is light at the end of the tunnel . Fingers crossed for you all xxxx

 

[want2bamum86]

I am so sorry for your losses. Reading your post gives me strength I have just suffered my third loss this year and it is heartbraking my hubby and I have an appointment on the 1st Dec for further testing so cant try untill then but I am so scared that I am not strong enough to cope with trying again the thought of another loss just terrifies me my third loss is very recent so I'm sure in time I will find the strength. You give me hope and belief that I will find it.

sweetheart i am glad i give u hope well i am 11dpo and i have a few symptoms of pregnancy so fingers crossed
i had loads of tests done after i lost josh in jan at 18 weeks [so many in fact i had to leave uni as i was at hospital everyday for 4 weeks] then on the 5th weeks i had a scan done and found out i was preg again with precious but lost her at 8 weeks losing josh hurt the most as he was the lil boy me and my oh have been longing for i am here for u hunni always will b if u ever want to talk message me i am online nearly everyday as i care for my oh and when he is having a nap i come on here all he is worried bout is that the baby will b like him which hurts me as i love him so very much and y would i care if my baby is like him. i would love my baby no matter what. lucky for me i have 2 days off as he is away with his friend on a fishing trip to give me some time to rest as sooo tired.
keep in touch hunni xxxxx
loads of love n hugs rhia xxxx