KimmyLou
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Hi All,
Firstly I want to say how sorry I am for everyones losses.
I found out I had a MMC at 9 weeks. I partially miscarried naturally, but had an ERPC as not everything had come away. I have just had my first AF exactly 4 weeks after it.
Right now though, I'm just not coping, my DH just expects me to be fine as he is ok. I have tried speaking to him and saying that I am finding things really difficult and he keeps saying 'we'll just have to try again!' I know this and I am desperate to try again but at the moment I am struggling to accept all of it. All I keep thinking is that I should be in the second trimester and not having my AF.
I find myself flying off the handle one minute and crying the next. I have already spoken to my GP who hasnt been supportive and just told me I will get over it. I feel completely isolated and on my own.
I am also terrified it will take another 3 1/2 years to get pregnant as thats how long it took with this one!
Sorry about my post, I felt I had no one to speak to.
Thanks, Kim xx
Firstly I want to say how sorry I am for everyones losses.
I found out I had a MMC at 9 weeks. I partially miscarried naturally, but had an ERPC as not everything had come away. I have just had my first AF exactly 4 weeks after it.
Right now though, I'm just not coping, my DH just expects me to be fine as he is ok. I have tried speaking to him and saying that I am finding things really difficult and he keeps saying 'we'll just have to try again!' I know this and I am desperate to try again but at the moment I am struggling to accept all of it. All I keep thinking is that I should be in the second trimester and not having my AF.
I find myself flying off the handle one minute and crying the next. I have already spoken to my GP who hasnt been supportive and just told me I will get over it. I feel completely isolated and on my own.
I am also terrified it will take another 3 1/2 years to get pregnant as thats how long it took with this one!
Sorry about my post, I felt I had no one to speak to.
Thanks, Kim xx