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[Becyboo__x]

Guys ... im in so much pain and i dont know what to even do the roads are horrendous with ice and snow really thick! i live on like 2 hills so my dads struggling to go places in the car and the doctors is like 15min walk from me and i darnt go on my own because if i fall over and hurt my self im going to be abit stuck

Basically i made a thread in third tri other day and continued today.. iv got a lump on my lady area but its at the beginning of the opening on the outside if that makes sense.. (above the clitirous) and it wasnt painful or anything iv had it few weeks and i thought oh its just a cyst as iv had a few and there common in pregnancy.. but this one burst recently and aload of puss came out SORRY TMI.. but its now twice the size it was and i think its infected and actually turning into a abscess im really worried what to do cause i think i need antibiotics but how am i to get to the drs with this weather! and im hoping the dr wont want to exmaine me cause there all old men and iv been going there my whole life and its like there my grandad/dad if that makes sense and its weird i should get over it and get it sorted but i feel embarrest id rather a nurse check .. but im hoping they will take my word for it and give me antibiotics but still the point i cant get up to my drs! my midwife is ment to be coming tuesday but im unsure she can cause of the roads (hills) leading up to my house there really bad no gritters have been up to clear the roads or the grit bins havent been fillled!

Sorry for the huge post.. im in abit of a state and in pain with this all i can do is put savlon on it to calm it and try stop the soreness .. but now iv got really bad pains where my theighs are like when i press on each side of my lady area its really senstive feels like when the midwife checked the head being engaged but she did it higher.. so now im thinking babys head is all the way down there! which is shitting me up even more and even worse im getting tighenings and BH's really bad .. arrgghh im abit scared i wont be able to give birth naturally if i have got an abscess or an infection

 

[Becyboo__x]

And im so worried about Sophie ive text her and shes not text back i really hope shes okay

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Guys ... im in so much pain and i dont know what to even do the roads are horrendous with ice and snow really thick! i live on like 2 hills so my dads struggling to go places in the car and the doctors is like 15min walk from me and i darnt go on my own because if i fall over and hurt my self im going to be abit stuck

Basically i made a thread in third tri other day and continued today.. iv got a lump on my lady area but its at the beginning of the opening on the outside if that makes sense.. (above the clitirous) and it wasnt painful or anything iv had it few weeks and i thought oh its just a cyst as iv had a few and there common in pregnancy.. but this one burst recently and aload of puss came out SORRY TMI.. but its now twice the size it was and i think its infected and actually turning into a abscess im really worried what to do cause i think i need antibiotics but how am i to get to the drs with this weather! and im hoping the dr wont want to exmaine me cause there all old men and iv been going there my whole life and its like there my grandad/dad if that makes sense and its weird i should get over it and get it sorted but i feel embarrest id rather a nurse check .. but im hoping they will take my word for it and give me antibiotics but still the point i cant get up to my drs! my midwife is ment to be coming tuesday but im unsure she can cause of the roads (hills) leading up to my house there really bad no gritters have been up to clear the roads or the grit bins havent been fillled!

Sorry for the huge post.. im in abit of a state and in pain with this all i can do is put savlon on it to calm it and try stop the soreness .. but now iv got really bad pains where my theighs are like when i press on each side of my lady area its really senstive feels like when the midwife checked the head being engaged but she did it higher.. so now im thinking babys head is all the way down there! which is shitting me up even more and even worse im getting tighenings and BH's really bad .. arrgghh im abit scared i wont be able to give birth naturally if i have got an abscess or an infection

oh dear becy! that sounds so bad
I really hope it stops hurting
I also wonder where sophie is

 

[Becyboo__x]

I hope it goes or stops hurting at least its horrible

And sophies okay shes text me back now just busy
x

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I hope it goes or stops hurting at least its horrible

And sophies okay shes text me back now just busy
x

thats good about shopie, I haven't heard from ashley, i wonder how she is doing.
I hopefully it doesnt get any worse and starts to get better

 

[annawrigley]

aww becy
i hope it gets better or the snow and stuff clears up so you can get to the drs!
it sounds nasty
i dont know about nottingham but here all the snow cleared up on boxing day, like "there you got your white christmas now we're taking it away"
and then started snowing again on new years eve just before midnight.. was kinda weird timing x

 

[Becyboo__x]

Yeah iv not heard anything from Ashley sept from the last update posted about Sophia.. i hope everything is going well for her and her 3 little ones.. have to see if Jas can give her a text see if shes doing okay.

And yeah its going down abit but it hurts when i walk and ym theighs are hurting not looking good for me lately! lol and Anna the snow cleared up whenever it was after christmas.. but it snowed again friday i think it was really bad! and carried on yesterday so its thick with snow on our roads ! and ice! its not snowed today though but ment to be snowing again wednesday GREAT! lol i just want the roads to get cleared on my street so IF i need to go hospital i wont have a struggle! but no gritters are coming up our streets because there not "MAIN ROADS" and the grit bins are all empty cause people nick it and put it in buckets in there garage for personal use and its abit stupid! .. so theres 3 hills to get to the bottom of my street to a main road and there all iced and snowed up great init my mum couldnt even get up to see me the other day so we could go get my pushchair from the shop! grr

Just hope the roads get cleared or something so i can get stuff sorted and not worry lol xx

 

[annawrigley]

see if you can get the council to do something about it maybe? youre due very soon its not good if its gona be trouble to get to the hospital! x

 

[Jas029]

I haven't tried texting her since new years eve and she never replied.. I just sent her a text now (FX)
Becy that sounds horrible, I really hope it clears up or something so you can get out! And yeah.. The doctors will want to examine that for sure... My doctor is an old man but he's been delivering babies for 20+ years so I feel completely confident with him but I was extremely nervous when I first had my pelvic exam
Normally I'd rather have a woman do that but hey.. He's experienced?

MY RIBS HURT SO BAD TODAY!!!
My L/O isnt even kicking them and they just HURT.. When I fell a few weeks ago and bruised my ribs there on the side where he never goes (thank god ) I really never had much pain with it after that but it HURTS so bad right there now..
I don't feel him over there at all though they just ache

 

[QuintinsMommy]

my doctor is a little Chinese old guy, i think he will be fun when delivering my baby, he makes the strangest jokes.

 

[Becyboo__x]

I dont think i will have to be looked at cause midwife is coming tomorrow and if i tell her i think shell understand what it is if i explain it and shell know its infected straight away if i say its burst like it has and hurting.. so hopefully shell say i should get some antibiotics and im hoping i can go up to the drs and just tell him midwife said i need some antibiotics for it.. i spose if i have to be examined then i do but i think hell take my word for it and midwifes specially me being in last weeks of pregnancy and stuff .. but i duno have to see what midwife says im crapping it ! lol

And about the snow its going down alot now and apparently the main roads are cleared its just our street so thats good but its just hard to get down to the main road lol! the council wont do anything they wont re-fill the grit bins because people nick it and put it in there garage for personal use and basically there stindgy council are ..

 

[annawrigley]

my doctor is a little Chinese old guy, i think he will be fun when delivering my baby, he makes the strangest jokes.

"i think he will be fun when delivering my baby"

 

[EmziixBo0o]

How is it today bec? u should look on google or something.. thats a thing i wud do lmaoo xx

 

[EmziixBo0o]

im in my middle box

 

[Becyboo__x]

weird that is only 6 days till your 20 weeks! i remember when we was talking about you getting half way !

And im okay its going down loads think the savlon helped! thank god but if its infected i think iv still got to get some antibiotics grr but least its going down .. i did google it i google most things but it didnt help much .. i feel so sick my blood pressure keeps going mental i think at night my heart beats really loud and fast like its jumping out my throat! and now i feel like death and like im going to throw up! plus im about in bits because my bump has suddenly shrank from last week its just not going well for me .. all i can think is everything still is okay as hes moving loads and he was moving non stop last night but i dont understand why i look so small all of a sudden

 

[EmziixBo0o]

my heartbeat seems to be like that u no..
i fink im eating to much fatty foods..
glad its goin down!

ive got this HORRIBLE cold.. but it cant affect LO can itt LOL!
beccccc have u got the new littlewoods book the pram i want looks gourgeous in there but horrible on the internet?xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

I dont know what it is with me cause i cant hack fatty foods anymore it makes me gag like fry ups and all that and whenever my mw checks my blood pressure its fine so i havent a clue but i barely can breathe .. A cold wont do anything to LO itll just make you feel 10x as drained sorry to say

And i havent got the catalogue its best to go into a shop that sells pushchairs tbh instead of buying off the internet ill just say sorry if anyone else has done it over the net but personally its best to go out and try them out properley ! i went to ( precious little one ) its like a factory shop and i tried loads out.. and i found the 1 i defo wanted.

Iv posted my bump pics on teen bumps.. just want some comments on them must be my hormones im about crying my eyes out looking at my recent bump am i stupid?

 

[EmziixBo0o]

Ohhh im gna sort myself out and take some new ones

haha.. well this one i just love it

but if it breaks littlewoods pick it up and bring ur new one at the same timee xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

My day gets better!
Just thought id go for a short walk as my mum says i need to see if i can get baby to move down more.. but i was putting it off cause of the ice/snow bad on my street but i thought id walk the dog and make him walk slow .. he actually behaved and didnt pull as hes abit hyper with the snow .. but he pulled down alot and i didnt walk far only down my street and back up and when i was walking down i ended up falling over i knew it was going to happen i fel on my left side and im okay im glad i didnt fal front ways .. i didnt want to even walk back up home cause i was scared i was going to fall again! but i couldnt ring my mum cause she lives like 45min away so i had to get the gutts to waddle back up the hill .. and this stupid women was sat in her car on the corner of my street! YES A CORNER! .. being a dick she just parked up there and was shouting out the window at this little lad (was with her) who was throwing snowballs at windows pissed me off how she parked on the corner when people are already cautious about the roads being slippy stupid women luckily i got home without falling again but i swear im having a bad day!

 

[EmziixBo0o]

sitting on the end of the street letting her son throw snowballs.. was she shouting at yu?xx