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[QuintinsMommy]

im not scared
lmao
my mom wil be making a fuss haha! i was scared she'd do my head in.. but i know she always wanted her mom there, she lost her mom when she was 9 :\ .. so i think it wil be nice for her..

but ive got the gas + air lmao + everybody keeps telling me contractions hurt moree

we don't have gas and air here in canada.
my choices are epidural, morphine or some kind of numbing needles that they put in your lady-area i wasn't 100% sure what my doctor was talking about he said "Numb like the dentist just not in your mouth"

 

[EmziixBo0o]

oh no i hate needles as it is..

lmao anna! that was funnyy

 

[Becyboo__x]

I agree braxton hicks arent painful as such there just not nice lol but iv only had them few times and they dont last long at all so maybe iv skipped getting them cause iv heard people say they get them alot. But im guna be a wimp in labour anyway lol but theres no way out of it so miswel just get on with it ayy if ya lucky and have a reasonable labour then should be fine but i feel sorry for anyone who ends up with a long and horrible labour ill prob be the 1 who gets that ill go into full detail if i do cause i would rather be honest then not and make things seem there 'not that bad'

 

[EmziixBo0o]

oh dear
i dont want to be in labour for like 2 days!
im just going in when my contractions are close together!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Exciting news!
I'm 1 cm dilated and soft!
my doctor said baby can come as soon as tonight, but hes thinking this weekend

 

[Becyboo__x]

i dont even know if im dilated theres someone due 2 days after me thats 2cms dilated .. i dont see my midwife will 27th now so i guess i wont know til i go into labour IF i do lmao..

Im so jealious now but your lucky i envy you
send some of your luckyness to me
x

 

[annawrigley]

Exciting news!
I'm 1 cm dilated and soft!
my doctor said baby can come as soon as tonight, but hes thinking this weekend

OMG! thats so exciting xxxxx

 

[EmziixBo0o]

exciting news!
I'm 1 cm dilated and soft!
My doctor said baby can come as soon as tonight, but hes thinking this weekend

woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

 

[EmziixBo0o]

i dont even know if im dilated theres someone due 2 days after me thats 2cms dilated .. i dont see my midwife will 27th now so i guess i wont know til i go into labour IF i do lmao..

Im so jealious now but your lucky i envy you
send some of your luckyness to me
x

when ur dialated..
is yur like down there a bit bigger like from where is dialated??

 

[QuintinsMommy]

My doctor said hes thinking baby will come this weekend
but I keep reading online that you can be 1 cm dilated and labour still be 3 weeks away

 

[EmziixBo0o]

=[ dont think negative!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I'm trying not to!
my baby feels so low. I don't want to get super excited and labor been along time away.

 

[EmziixBo0o]

have you had braxton kicks?

 

[QuintinsMommy]

yep

 

[Becyboo__x]

Ill just say now ..
when your dilated yove got to be 10cm's before you can give birth this is what iv read anyway.. it says the number of fingers the midwife can get in the cervix i think it is thats how many cm's your dilated.. so 1cm is 1 finger.. But aswell iv watched loads labour programmes ages ago where women have been in labour for hours and only dilated a tiny bit like every hour or so But saying all this it probs just depends you could dilate quite quick or slow so you never know when itll happen. Misuko someone on here had her baby this morning and shes due day after me and she was only 2cm dilated the other day.

Wel anyway last night i literally thought about ringing my mum up i was in so much pain its hard aswell cause i dont think iv had proper BH's iv had my belly go tight before for a few seconds and pains in my hip but if people say BH's dont hurt that much then it wasnt me having them .. i had these pains for ages stopping and starting i thought they were contractions.. but i thought they cant be so i left it and i ended up not being able to sleep but it feelt like he was pushing down like when they engage and its uncomfy but it hurt a hel of a lot aswell Dont know if this is a sign something might happen soon or if its nothing but omg im being serious the pain i had last night was horrible !

Preggo try stay positive i know its hard cause im trying to for tomorrow but you never know something might just happen randomly thats what im hoping anyway lol
x

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Becy, I hope we have our little guys soon!
I know I can be 1 cm dilated and it be weeks or it be a few days..

I had really strong BH last night so I started to time them, they seemed to be all over the place and thats how I knew it wasn't the real thing
I got excited tho, it was 4min,then another at 4 mins apart, then 6 mins then 8 mins, and 4 mins, and I was like NOOO

 

[Becyboo__x]

Im glad i dont know if im dilated tbh just for the fact id be thinking it might happen even more each day/night lol! I was going to time the pains i was getting but mine was all over the place too but at first they were like 3mins between them but then it started to get like 5mins so i thought nothing of it im just hoping something will randomly happen tonight or anytime after! Im just too fed up now

 

[EmziixBo0o]

bec, cant u feel too see if ur dialted.. sorry if TMI but if its 1 cm 1 finger... + u havnt seen somebody in so so long :\ x

 

[Becyboo__x]

I havent seen midwife since 38+5 and she said i was still 3/5ths engaged but it feelt like i was nearly 2/5ths .. so nearly fully engaged but its been over a week now so things must have changed but i dont see her till wednesday .. You can do it yourself but its risky because they say youve got to have proper clean hands and youve got to be careful you dont break your water bag or damage the membrane things its abit complicated lol x

 

[QuintinsMommy]

bec, cant u feel too see if ur dialted.. sorry if TMI but if its 1 cm 1 finger... + u havnt seen somebody in so so long :\ x

lol when my doctor put his fingers/hand up there...it was painful, I was like "WHERE IS HE GOING"